My buddy wants to sleep in the same bed with me when he comes over.?

Question

I have a nice sofa and all. He says well he just likes knowing somebody is there since he grew up in a house with lots of people arguing and stuff. I let him do it a few times, and I wake up and he is holding me spooning. We are not g*y or anything, and other that that he is a cool guy. We are both in our 40's without gf/s.

What do you think of this? Tell him no more, or continue this harmless stuff?

Answer 1

I think you've got a better idea of where he's coming from than you're

letting on.. It's up to you whether you want this thing to possibly

become more. It's important that you be honest with yourself.

Answer 2

even if its harmless, i think guys will feel uneasy sleeping in the same bed.

Answer 3

Tell him to sleep somewhere else

Answer 4

The fact that I don't want to share my bed with another guy doesn't make me a homophobe, just sensible. You're entering territory you needn't be in unless you're g*y...so whatever else you do, don't lie to yourself.

Answer 5

Get a Girl friend and tell him your beds too full

Answer 6

I think that its kind of weird that he is planning to sleep in the same bed as you, maybe you should just say that you are uncomfortable sleeping in the same bed as him and that you think it is a bit creepy, and btw I think he might be g*y.....

Answer 7

I am a 32 year old woman whose best friend is a 26 year old woman now when I go down to her house I sleep in the same bed and yes I have woken up to her spooning me now I have no problem with this because I know my own sexuality and preference.. I see nothing wrong with this situation but you are the one asking this question so the answer really lies within you how do you feel ?  If this makes you uncomfortable then tell and if not then continue this one is really up to you but whatever your decision do what you need to do to feel comfortable again Hope I helped  

Answer 8

It's incredibly disturbing.  He is extra needy and weird.  I wouldn't date this guy EVER.  Whether or not he is g*y, he acts g*y.  Don't let him spend the night anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!