My child is being picked on by one child ho lives three doors down from my house both of them do not like each

Question

other so iv told my daughter to stay away from her and her house. my daughter and her cousin use to play with this girl. but they kept falling out with each other. so now my daughter and her cousin just play with each other but when they are out side and its a nice day this girl follows her. and gets other kids in the street to be nasty to them or just my daughter. her sister brings her up most of the time as her mam thinks of her boyfriend more than her kids. her sister has told more lies about my daughter than anything my child is far from perfect but i would never make a lie about a nother child up to make me look better. now two nosiy women from each end of the street have put thair nose in to it what am i soposed to do. as if like it does most of the time we get into an argument in the street some nosy person phones the housing office to complain when it has nothing to do with them in the first place. give me some good advise please i know we should not argue over the children

Answer 1

Unfortunately, I was in a very similar position and have my house for sale!

L

Answer 2

i have been in the same boat im 11 n if i was her id make friends 4 her sake 2 stop her gettin lil peeps 2 pik on her but avoid her n dont act all friendly or have a word wif her mam n ask her 2 ask her kid2 leave her alone.

                                 THNX BIYZ

Answer 3

firstly, it sounds like this girl is attention seeking and shes definately getting plenty, the best thing you can do is for you and your family to ignore them all, eventually it will all blow over when everyone is bored, hope it all works out for you x*x.

Answer 4

Allow your daughter and all her real friends to play in your back garden away from all the other kids and nosey neighbours that way she stays safe and you know exactly what she is doing and just ignore the other girl bullies often get bored and she'll move onto her next victim

Answer 5

Unless your are with your daughter 24-7 you dont know all of what she says or does hon, and the same goes for the mother of the other girl.

Maybe you can move somewhere else?Find another place for her to play?

At any rate, Tell your daughter to stay away from her and if the other girl comes around making trouble, run her off.

Answer 6

visit the mother and state yo think the girls have fallen out. tell her how you see it and ask the other child as to how you can all get along together.

i had a problem of my children fighting and i invited the enemy including parents to my house for a meal.  this solved the problem and we all lived happily ever after, but my problem was with boys.  girls are a different kettle of fish and are born with cat's claws.  good luck.

Answer 7

Ahh thats so nasty! I don't think anybody would be as horrible as that! I think you should go and speak to that child and tell her in calm manner that if she will not stop harrassing your daughter, then the police will get involved. That is supposed to be a threat to scare her but if you feel you need to get them involved then do.Then go around everyone who she has told and apologize for any mistakes or rumours that have been going on and say nothing is true and the person reponsible will go to the police as for any others doing the same. Try speaking with the girl's mother as well and tell her the stuff her daughter has been doing. Try your hardest to get them friends and if it doesn't work then always keep them as far from each other as possible to stop any arising arguements. I am kid myself but none of my friends my whole life would ever behave like that. I dearly hope you get this sorted out because it seems really horrible. Good luck!