My child told me he prefers guys but still like girls. how can i make his life easier ?

Question

for a long time i did not accept nature.

i felt like i knew god and that if it didn't fit into my perspective then it was not right.

but all humans are bi-sexual.

i know this medically.

i know this also by observing other mammals.

male dogs have intercourse with other male dogs as well as female dogs.

i want my son to be as happy as possibile for being sexually normal. what can i do to make sure he knows its natural to like other men and women. and that he doesn't have to choose. just because society is saying you have to be with us or against us.

dogs don't have to chose and i don't want my son to either.

please help !

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Answer 1

Just tell him how you feel - accept him and love him.  He will be fine.

Kudos for being such a good mother and supporting your child - no matter who they are.

Answer 2

sounds like you are a very caring mother and love your son deeply, just explain to him exactly as you did in your question and  he will know how you feel and also be able to make his choice without worrying about upsetting you.

good luck.

Answer 3

why are you comparing your kid to a dog? Dogs eat their own c**p, does your kid do that too? Just tell him it's ok to be bisexual, tell him to practice safe s*x and leave it at that. DO NOT compare him to a dog, that would embarrass and offend most people.

Answer 4

tell him that you except him and respect his choice and that you are happy he could trust with something like that. but don't spread the word with all of your mom friends(sorry if that sounds offensive)

Answer 5

You tell him this: listen here kid, you're just like everybody else, some kids might think you're different or strange, but their just ignorant. You be yourself.

Answer 6

Remember that this is not about s*x acts, but about your son's sexuality - how he functions, feels and interacts with himself and with others.  Never mind what other people say.  It's none of their friggin' business.  Encourage your son to find his own place in the world and to surround himself with people who will be supportive to him.  And do make sure he absolutely knows that, no matter what, you love him just the way he is; and that nothing could ever make that love disappear.

Answer 7

You're comparing your son to a dog... Wow... Anyway just support him no matter what he chooses as his sexual preference. I wouldn't force anything on him, just be there. That's all.

Answer 8

Let him know you except him for who he is.

Answer 9

Tell him exactly that :/

Answer 10

Did you know you just classified YOUR son as a DOG!

BUT I guess if your a science freak kind of person you already knew that. Along with us also being apes which is complete BULLSHIT!

Answer 11

Be the best parent you can, show him support. He just be confused with all of the things in life. What ever you do don't bring it up at times like dinner, instead set aside time with him to let him know you're there if he has any concerns or questions. Just be the best d**n parent you can and let him know that no matter what you will always love him for being him and that what ever he chooses is ok with you.

Answer 12

Just tell him how you feel, dont hide anything. Tell him that everyone may not completely agree but he doesnt need to worry about everyone else. As long as he's happy with HIS life and HIS decisions, he has nothing to worry about. Especially what others think. Thats the least he needs to worry about.