My children were acting up yesterday and my husband was upset I was doing the laundry ?

Question

And i just looked at him And he said to me what is the matter with you didnt you get enough (refering to being close). How should i feel about this? He has said he is sorry but i am very hurt.

Answer 1

็ำHe's a human.   He has feelings too and he snapped.We all make mistakes.   He said sorry and when a man says he is sorry he means it.   He knew that you're hurt.  Do your part by forgive and forget.  Go for a night out just you 2 and make up.  Have fun :)

Answer 2

By "being close", do you mean having s*x? If you're so inhibited that you can't even TYPE those words here, where you're completely anonymous and nobody has clue who are or even where you are, that suggests to me that you have problems. Frankly, it seems a little surprising that you even have children.

As for you "withholding affection", I take that to mean you're thinking of not letting your husband have s*x with you until he's learnt some sort of lesson.

If that's what you're considering, then it's something you definitely should start to do if you want to see your marriage go straight down the tubes and you want to soon be here whining about how you think your husband doesn't love you anymore and you suspect he's out messing around.

Using s*x as a weapon to get back at the other person in a marriage is a huge warning sign of emotional immaturity and a clear indication that the relationship is heading no place positive.

Given how you write about it, I'm far from clear on what exactly happened yesterday, what the history between you two is and exactly what "mental abuse" you believe your husband guilty of. And it seems I'm not the only one here confused by what you're asking.

In my experience, the thing that generally goes a long way toward straightening out disputes between husbands and wives is them sitting down and talking honestly about the problems. Complaining to your best friend, a co-worker or a bunch of strangers on the Internet won't get you far at all.

Answer 3

When you say "being close", I assume you mean s*x? IF so then I think you need to lighten up.

Answer 4

sounds like he had a bad moment, but now its over

i understand why that would annoy you, but since he said sorry, it should be fine now

Answer 5

hahaha, your husband sounds like a funny guy. I'm sure he was just joking.

(refering to being close) does this mean s*x?