I got a solictors letter yesterday from my ex partner saying he wanted start contact again.
My relationship ended beacuse my partner was abusive and lazy, and a compulsive liar. His family are very wicked minded and hate me and i cant help but feel as if this is being done out of spite because i have moved on with my life.
My daughter does not know him. ive never told her about him. i feel she is too young to understand yet. But it is something i definately would not keep from her. I just never thought it was going to be in these circumstances.
He left when she was a 1 1/2. He took me to court then for visitation rites, which i went along with, and he was entitled to see her, but after the first arranged visit, he never came back. that was sept 4 years ago. she got a christmas and birthday present that year (by post), and then that was it until now. He never contacted once, ive never seen him since that time.
He never paid any money towards her, her claimed he could not afford it as he was claiming benefits, (income support and dla!), and he was doing enough cash and hand work that would of given him plenty of money.
we got divorced. I met someone else. I got remarried last year, and had a second child. My life is finally on track. My child loves my husband to bits and calls him daddy.
This is going to completely turn her wee life up side down, i dont think its fair.
Is there anything i can do to stop him, legally?
We are about to start adoption proceedings,
Does anyone know how long that takes? (im from n ireland).
Can my husband adopt her even if my ex contests?
Thank you
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