My co-worker and I had great s*x but he is straight?

Question

Oaky so my very masculine male co-worker and I had a great night of s*x. WE are both straight. Well (I think I am bi) but I lean more towards guys. I never thought he was into this but after a few weeks of what I thought were come ons he took me back to his place and it was great. He is divorced and I am married. After the incident he freaked and apologized saying he was not g*y and that he had bever done anything like that before. I feel really awkword now and I think it has messed up our friendship which was excellent. He said he was sorry and that he was lonely since his divorce and that I was there at eth right time and that it would not happen again. Now I find myself turned on even more by him at work but I am afraid to approach him again. I want to so bad but does he? What should I do?

Answer 1

i think he does but doesnt want to ruin ur marriage

Answer 2

Unless you are in an open marriage, you are cheating on your spouse.  So, please stop.

Answer 3

well first off,, if you two had s*x,, are you honestly going to sit there and believe hes straight.

if he took you back to his place he has to have some attraction to youu,,

and its not like you two didnt do anything at his place, so it must be a pretty big attractionn.

as to what to do at workk,,

i wouldnt say anything at work,,

that could get awkward and then make the rest of your work days awkward,, and most likely would get around at your job.

i would contact him some other way,,

and take him out for coffee or something and discuss what happened and your feelings for him,,

if hes positive hes straight [(i still dont believe it)]

then just continue the friendship the way it was before,,

and dont show your attraction to a point where it makes him uncomfortable.

Answer 4

i think he wants to as well but is scared, give him time and some space after you tell him how you really feel, tell him it's ok and that it was great and then back off for a little while and he'll come around...but just don't be too bold when you talk to him be more casual like "oh hey..."  

Answer 5

He is NOT straight if you two had s*x. He's lying to himself. If you want a relationship with him, don't pursue it. If you just want to have fun, pursue it. I'm pretty sure he would go for it again if he did it with you before.

Answer 6

FIrst off before you go after him you need some serious time to self reflect on what just passed Your a married man who just had s*x with someone else. You need to sort out who or what your truly desire. You know he is straight so why would you go after him? As he said he was just desperate for some sexual satisfaction You need to cut off the sexual bonds you have formed with this man. You need to be thinking about your current partner and how they equate into what just happened Remember stay away until you are back on your emotional feet. Hoped I helped, zachary.  

Answer 7

He's either in denial or an MsM (men who have s*x with men).

You can be not attracted to men, but still have s*x with them for whatever reason and still be straight. I'd say either talk about it as "not happening again" if you want to save yourself from debt (think of what might happen if there were a divorce).