My co worker has on a pretty dress but i can see her body thru it. should i tell her?

Question

you can see her body. the skin color and everything and you can see that she has nothing under but a thong. i don't think she knows and all the dudes are talking about it. the dress is a thin material so even when she bends down it gets right stuck in her booty. i want to tell her so she knows to put something under it next time but I don't want to tell her because she has a few hours before she gets off and i don't want her to be uncomfortable the rest of the day. she is the supervisor of her department. but we're real cool. i'm i don't want her to feel embarrassed. then the dudes will know i told her and they will get me too. not that i care. i was thinking i'd tell her when she gets off. what should I do?

Answer 1

Tell her sarcastically LOL... Say something like:

Gosh, I didnt know we could wear our BIRTHDAY SUITS to work now

or

Ok, Ok, the jokes over, where r your REAL WORK clothes!!!

LMAO...

Answer 2

I highly doubt she doesn't already know this.

Answer 3

tell her at the end of the day becuase she will feel very uncomfortable the resr of the day

unless you have something for her to wear under the dress or instead of the dress

Answer 4

Yes!! Defintly tell her

Answer 5

She is seeking multiple banging opportunities.

Answer 6

I'd tell her now

it'll save her further embarrassment

plus if you don't she may be mad u didnt tell her earlier

Answer 7

I think she knows. You don't just buy and then wear a sheer dress to work and pretend not to see anything underneath. If it bothers you I guess you could tell her.  

Answer 8

Tell her.  And she probably does know.  But she shouldn't be causing a major distraction at the workplace.  Perhaps the supervisor should hold a meeting to review the company dress codes.

Answer 9

Just say im telling you this because i care you booty is showing i just didnt want you to be embaresed

Answer 10

i agree she definitely already knows I'm sure its not the first time shes worn that dress somewhere and I'm pretty sure she knows

Answer 11

tell her at the end of the day but do tell her she will appreciate it  

Answer 12

Tell her.  Of course she has a mirror at home.  That doesn't mean she can see through the dress.  When she's standing in front of her mirror, the location of the lights and/or windows in the room will determine whether or not she can see through it.  If the lights are in the wrong place, she truly might not know.

So yes, definitely tell her that a slip would be a good idea next time, unless she really enjoys knowing that all the guys are placing bets on the color of her much-too-obvious thong.

Answer 13

It's possible the lighting in front of her miror didn't make it look so transparent.

This happened to a friend of mine! She was so embarrassed.

Yes, you should probably tell her so she knows before she wears the dress again, but be tasteful about it. Also, it's courteous to wait to the end of the day so she doesn't have to be self-conscious about it until she leaves.

Try not to oogle her as you say it, because if she wasn't aware of it, she might feel awkward.

Answer 14

Maybe you can say something like, 'you sure are brave to wear that clingy see-thru dress, I wish I were that confident with my body'  That way, if she is aware of it then it will be a compliment but if not she will say what?  see thru?  really?  omg.

Answer 15

She knows

Answer 16

alert your supervisor.  Tell him/her that her way of dressing is disturbing the office, and you feel that he/she needs to be the one to tell her that she needs to go home for the day, and not come back in till she can dress in a more respectful way towards the office.

Answer 17

She probably already knows, I would just keep my mouth shut.  She is the one who dressed like that in the first place.

Answer 18

duuuuude

just check her out, all women are curios

plus lesbians are hot

Answer 19

Tell her very tactfully. You don't want her to think you're coming down on her, but she would probably appreciate knowing.  Maybe she can go home on her lunch and put on a slip.

Answer 20

wait 5 more minutes then tell her. mabye she already knows and wanted to get a bf.

Answer 21

if she is a friend you tell her so she can save face. the guys are being childish and both them and her border on sexual harassment. tell her now! be careful how you word it if she is the boss. if she is a friend tell her like it is! definitely tell her ASAP!

Answer 22

If I were in her situation I would want someone to tell me. She may not know. If she does, then she obviously did it on purpose and may just shrug it off.

It is not rude to tell her, if she is a rational person she will understand that you are telling her to try and help her. Any woman with self-respect would want to know that she is the subject of discussion between men in the office.

It's like the proverbial skirt-inside pantyhose deal. Wouldn't you want someone to tell you?

Answer 23

You should have told her as soon as you noticed it.  But still tell her so she can be prepared next time she wears this.  Also, she had to know that it was sheer and see through.  If you can see it, I'm sure she could herself see it.  For all you know, she might have worn it for the attention it would give.  Some woman like to be seen as an object of sexual desire.

Answer 24

tell her now, not later.

often the lighting in a bedroom is darker than in an office - so she probably doesn't know that she needed to wear a slip.

Tell.

Answer 25

The best thing to do would be to tell her. Would you want someone to tell you? I would.

Answer 26

Tell her.  Wouldn't you want her to tell you?  I would wait until the end of the day though.  She can't really do anything about it now, can she?  I think you're right in saying that it would make the rest of the day uncomfortable.

Be nice about it.  Say something like, I just noticed that you could...and go from there.

Answer 27

She knows.

Answer 28

YOU HAVE TO TELL HER.FIND A WAY TO TELL HER IN A NICE WAY.

Answer 29

If she owns a mirror, she knows already.

Answer 30

I think that you should tell her.  She will probably smile and say, Oh I know!, but at least she will know that you have her back.  I say this because some people will let you walk around with a little man hanging out of your nose:) and talk about it, just like her dress.

Answer 31

Poor girl. I'm sure she has a mirror at home but probably has bad lighting. Everything shows up under fluorescent lighting or in sunshine. Yes you need to tell her. Doesn't anyone have a sweater she could wrap around herself? I doubt that an office supervisor would deliberately come to work like that.