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My confused ex or maybe me to?

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Little long sorry. My ex had an affair, I found out and when I asked her about working on saving it she said right now no ?? Whats up w/that right now no? so 2 months later the guy dumped her then finally 4 months later she filed for divorce cause I wouldn't so 6 months after the fact she finally filed.Her step mom all the sudden didn't like me after all I did for her as well and then started planting seeds in my now ex head which really made me mad knowing that the ex would allow someone else to control her decisions, the ex told me that she didn't want to get on the bad side of the step-mom cause if her dad had passed before her step mom, that she would make it rough on her cause she didn't divorce me and listen to her, sounds stupid but very true she wants to stay on her good side. The ex from the very beginning has said that she wants to be friends and to this day she still does. I rarely talk to her and when we do she always, always talks about communication and friends etc. kinda late now ? I told her from the beginning that I want it all or nothing and she just wanted to be friends, so she did alot and said alot of strange things to keep me on this roller coaster ride and so I finally asked her the same question she asked me 2 weeks earlier ( are you over me ) and she didn't want to answer and I said you asked me and I told you I wasn't over you so whats the answer ? she then said yes she was over me, she didn't want to answer me cause she probably new that it would be over then cause I said I want it all or nothing cause I am not playing games w/my or her emotions. So again what do you think I feel she may be seeing someone, not sure but 1 day her son was working on her car here cause he lives w/me 20 year old stepson to me, and I just decided to check over the car to make sure it was allright and her friend? put 20 pounds to much air in her tires and I told her that was dangerous to drive like that so I think she misses a very dependable person in her life. What do you think of all this??

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  1. I say leave her and let her do her thing....

    You can do better


  2. I think you are very much in Love with her!  Please don't waste your time hoping and hanging on.  The world needs a good man, move on so you can meet someone who really appreciates you.  xox

  3. divorce tends to spread,

    you have to want to work on it,

    sometimes people just cant stand to see others happy

  4. i think u should forget about her, if she still feels something then she wouldnt be playing with ur emotions

  5. I think it's over and she wants to maintain some type of friendship. She probably does care about you but has stated herself that she is over you. Listen to what she is telling you and move on.

  6. i think you need to open your eyes and see exactly what she is doing to you. You deserve better and you need to stop been around her. Let someone else take care of her car. If she is done with you then she has to be done in every way. Your a yo yo!! Make your mind up! Sounds like she can treat you any way she wants to and you think its OK. Its time to close this chapter and write a new one!

  7. im sorry i dont get do u like her or nnot

    maybe she does want u  back

  8. Leave her!!! She is treating you like Sh**!  I can't believe you have stuck in there this long! You deserve someone who will tell you that they love you unconditionally and cannot live without you.  Your ex is NOT that person.  You should move on, it may be hard, but remember that she doesn't love you.  Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't love you?  Move on...she is still using you.

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