My cousin has problems.?

Question

my cousin is 22. me and her get along so great. were like best friends we tell each other everything! we call each other, text, IM, and email each other. anyways she cofined to me iyesterday that's she's 4 months pregnant with her mother's (my aunt) ex husband's child. she has 4 other siblings and none of them know of the preganancy. her mom divorced him 3 years ago and her mom has a reputation for sleeping around. all her kids have diffrent fathers. my friend says she can't tell anyone about this. everyone even me think of her as a "good girl". and i couldn't believe it when she told me this. she always said she was gonna stay a virgin until marriage. now it seems she's a liar. i love her like a sister in all now i knida see her as a hypocrite s**t. so should she tell her family about this????

Answer 1

Yea of course but on her own terms. You should be happy that you were the one whom she confided in. So think twice before you do anything that could hurt her emotional. What would you do if this happened to you? She needs some emotional support, She might be just as ashamed at herself at what she did. So try to be open about this because things happen and she probably came to you because she knows that she can trust you. Belive me she will tell her family when she wants nothing good will come if someone else tells them. She has to be ready herself, not forced or have it done by someone else.

Hope I helped :)

Answer 2

she only has a month until they figure it out anyway. just blame it on a night where she was drunk & didn't know the guy. there is a reason why her mother left him remind her of that. & don't "beat" her up for this slip up she has a reminder of that with her everyday.

Answer 3

ya i think she should tell her family, family is always going to be there for you, she's human, ppl make mistakes. Its going 2 show sooner or later.

Answer 4

I would leave it up to her.  She is already in a bad position to say the least. Plus she told you in confidence.  Even though you don't agree with what she did, you need to be supportive of her.  Plus how uncomfortable would you be telling other people something like that.

Answer 5

seems to me like you're lying cause at first you said.

"my cousin"

then you said

"my friend"

Answer 6

You know she confided in you, above everybody else. So you must be very important in her life. Dont judge her, please. She may have wanted to be a virgin unitl marriage, but life someitmes has other plans. And oyu dont know the circumstances of her relationship with that guy. She's already going thru a lot, being pregnant isnt easy. besides the obvious, your hormones are out of control so you should try and be supportive of her. She will have to tell her family, sooner or later they will find out. The sooner she tells them, the better. Now just help her as a cousin and friend. Maybe she made a mistake and she knows it, but it's too late now. A baby is on the way, a beautiful miracle, that deserves love and care. And your cousing needs lots of love and SUPPORT!

Answer 7

yeahh she should..

Answer 8

She is not a hypocrite or a s**t. Things happen and people make mistakes. Don't think of her as a low person. She should tell someone and not care if they're not happy. Again she made a mistake let her deal with it the way she wants.

cousin or friend???

Answer 9

She should.