My cousin is a bully to me and da bully is a gurl???Help plz?

Question

My gurl cousin picks on me alot and we are the same size but....

I am 15 yrs old and she is 17 yrs old!!!

She isn't big, like 110 lbs!!!

I am taller by like 5 inches!!

I told her to stop but she keeps betch slapping me!!!

I know I can beat her up but she is a gurl, I dont like hitting gurlz!!!

She been doing this since I waz 10 yrs old.....

She doent like beat the c**p out of me but she just likes to betch slap me alot of times....

I need help.....I need her to stop cuz its embarrising (SP?) when i am around the family and friends!!!

family and friends laugh at me....

PLZ tell me how can I make her stop, without fighting cuz she is a gurl...

Also, have u ever felt like me b4 with a family or friends

If u did plz explain ur story too...and tell me how u stopped it thx!!

Answer 1

ok

Answer 2

Ive felt that way b4 with my cousin. Were both guys tho and the hes a couple of yrs older. THe best thing to do is not hang around them. And if they do it anyways, then you can straight up tell her to chill thefuck out and threaten her, if she doesnt then it go time and bitchslap her and show her who's boss.  

Answer 3

im sure theres a reason,nobody hits another person for no reason

Answer 4

The next time she reaches back to slap you, catch her hand and gently but firmly wrestle her down to the floor and pin her. Then calmly tell her in her ear " Do not touch me, do not mess with me. I have had enough. Do you understand me?", and don't let her up until she says "yes".

You are not hurting her in any way - and yet, at the same time you're letting her know that you are not a push -over.

Answer 5

does she kick you in your balls?

now that is torture.

you need to do somehting to get her back and fast.

you don't have to hit her but find out some dirt on her like her secerts lol.

have fun and good luck

Answer 6

Me and my cousin (which was obviously older then me) would always hurt me..but i wouldn't say anything.. after a while i got sick of her hurting me and told her to stop ****** hitting me..she stopped after a while then went back again..After she continued everytime she would hit me i would hit her  back...after awhile she stopped and so did i...best advice? KICK HER ***!