My cousin needs a man's opinion and or woman's about saying something while having s*x?

Question

k so she has been with this guy sexually a few times well i guess last night she was with him sexually, and while she was with him he said (i love your ***) 2 times.well she wants to know if he love's her love's or if he was literally talking about her butt? and he was on top of her saying this...........and yes i am embarrassed to ask this lol I'm married but it still makes me feel embarrassed to ask lol thanks for answering

Answer 1

Come on girl, what? your cousin don't have a voice of her own? how embarrassing can it be to ask a question from people you will never ever see? Most likely the guy was talking about her ***, considering that they have only been together a short time, but who knows! the only way to find out is to ask him, oh! but that would be way too embarrassing huh?

Answer 2

I have no doubt that the guy was saying exactly what was on his mind at the time - he loves her butt.  As to whether he actually loves her or just loves the experience he was getting at the time - who knows?  Men can easily divorce their sexual pleasure from their feelings of love, believe me I know.  The way she will find out whether he actually loves her will be from all of the other signals about how he acts with her, respects her, and does things for her unprompted.

Answer 3

If he said he loves her a** then OBVIOUSLY he meant he loved her butt... not her. Shouldn't your cousin only be having s*x with a guy who actually loves her and admits that BEFORE they do the deed? :/

Answer 4

if you're married, wouldn't you know the answer?

Answer 5

i think he was talking about her actual ***..if she wants to know if he loves her just ask. don't say i love you though because she doesn't wants to feel embarrassed if he doesn't love her back so just ask. you will never know unless you ask

Answer 6

i love your a.. does not equal i love you.  you may be married now but i doubt you are that naive in the ways of the world.

Answer 7

Zenovia is right. One thing I haven't seen in the comments, though, is that a lot of people like saying things like this during s*x - it's a compliment to their partner and can enhance their enjoyment of s*x. Some people talk a lot during s*x, it's an individual preference.

Answer 8

haha this is a funny one. I guess in reality it would probably depend on where he put the emphasis in the sentence. lol Did he say ... "I LOVE your ***! like oh yes oh yes. Or did he say " I LOVE your ***" I mean if he's ghetto... haha he coulda been saying he loves her but I kinda doubt it.