My cousin that lives in a different state than me has friend problems? Help!?

Question

My 10 year old cousin lives in Miami and I live in LA and we were both emailing eachother through msn today and apparently, things have been getting worse for her and her friend, Gloria. She very wealthy. Read my other question if you want to know more about Gloria.

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So, Gloria had her party on 2/21 and she just turned 12. So, since her party, she invited her friends and other "pretty" girls from her 5th grade class. Now her previous friends beside my cousin Dani (Kelly Anne, Vanessa, Felicia, Aubrey, Ashli, Sasha), her group of 8 turned quickly into 16 adding Brittany, Mercedes, Gia, Kim, Chloe, Shannon, Kristen, and Nicole to her group, just because they are the prettiest and they wear abercrombie and hollister. Also, Dani has been trying to get away from Gloria, but Gloria threatens her that if she leaves her, she and her other friends (including new ones) will spread a

Answer 1

Go to the school councelor,  teacher, any school staff really, and tell them what's happening , this is not okay AT ALL.  Something like that happened to me once, and I was miserable until I told.  After, although they gave me dirty looks, they never were that mean to me.  If they are still mean, tell your parents and ask them to talk with the principal about it.  They usually get in big thouble for being so mean.

Answer 2

go to your school administrator or school counselor... they are the right person to go if you have concerns.. and about the threatening...so what..that's why there free to do what they want to do because you're scared..then show them they can tell whatever secret then assure them that it will not affect you in anyway...no oppressors if nobody would allow to be oppressed

Answer 3

Well this is a long story and it sounds like if ur cousin is having such a bad time. I know. Parents don't listen sometimes...but yeah tell her to go to her counselor, to not be scared, if the counselor doesn't listen, then she'll have 2 talk 2 someone else like a principal. The girls would probably get scared & leave her alone. Completely ignore her. If that doesn't happen your cousin has to stand up for herself. She can't be feeling inferior all the time. I know she is 10 but she can't let anyone treat her as bad as those girls do. She has to be brave & speak to a counselor or confront them not necessarily fighting but just make them stop. She can get out of any group, she'll be alone for a while but she will eventually find other BETTER Friends :)