My cousins boyfriend needs to be slapped?

Question

Both my cousin and her bf have divorces she has 2 children he has 2 children also. He has a baby on the way from his ex wife she got pregnant to keep him but the plan backfired. My cousin and his ex wife do not get alot at all and is starting to cause trouble. They were trying to get pregnant but she says with everything going on she wants to get her tubes tied. He up and tells her that he wants to terminate his rights to both his children. She ask me what i thought cause i have a small child in open adoption. Says he thought long and hard about it they cant afford alot and he says with the added child support he going to have to pay he'd rather do this until he's more stable. I'm like HELLO! you cant ever get these kids back no matter what if something happends to her he cant take cousody of them. He even told her well rachel gave her rights away and she still see's aria. Not the same thing at all. I wanna smake him please what does anyone else think cause i know he sure isnt thinking

Answer 1

He can't give up his rights and just not pay child support. A person can give up their rights - that is possible. But they will still pay child support!!! Sorry that is the way it is.

Answer 2

Sounds like typical, normal stuff for this day and age. I remember when people waited till they were married to s***w around and stayed faithful to each other till they kicked the bucket...   (sigh)