My cousins have ruined my life ever since.They've always made fun of me and my brother.Some advice please?

Question

So im the youngest in my group and grew up with how many boys. I'm also the only girl. And i just be myself. My mom raised me differently then they did. And they make fun at every word i say. I'm tired of listening and hurting in the inside. Im tired of being stuck in the box of harsh words. the only thing they did nice to me once is stop talking to me. And with my brother, they think he looks weird. They humiliate me in front of my friends, and they laugh at every word i say. But at parties, i once told my brother that i was going to ignore them and go to a seperate room, or i just stay with the grown-ups, but it didnt work. I need some help. Friends did a lot. But their advice just left me trapped more in my box of hurt. PLEASE HELPPP!

Answer 1

i have a cousin who's blackmailed me for years, and i've decided i'd rather get things out in the open than have this held over me any more

i'm dying for revenge at this point, i cant wait to get him excluded from our side of the family once and for all

Answer 2

I have the same problem. I will also look up here for answers.

I hate my cousins to death!!!!!   Star for you.

Answer 3

Stop giving them your power. You control how you feel. You can't do anything about them, so the logical explanation is to change how you deal with it. Why do you care? Honestly think about it. Does it really matter what these losers think of you?

Laugh it off. When they see that they don't bug you, they'll probably get bored. Or try harder. You need to really decide that you are unaffected by their opinion, and be happy in your life. You control You. Only you.