With my dad's 2nd wife and girlfriends, I have dealt with quite a bit of drama. My dad is one of those men who can't survive without a woman in his life. My dad and I agreed to get an apartment together and split the bills/cleaning responsibilities, so he wouldn't have to invest in real estate again before he moves out of the country next year. Now, his 29 year old wife (I'm 24) from Vietnam comes to the United States, marries my dad. All she does is sit around and do nothing. Seeing how my dad and I work, I think she should take on the majority of the cleaning responsiblities since she's living for free. So I decided to boycott and stop cleaning the "common" areas. Now my dad is getting on to me for not doing my part. I work 60 hours a week, he works 40 hours a week, she works 0 hours a week... how fair is that?
She also dresses very risque, and when I go out and about with them it's embarrassing. She will do things like go grocery shopping with us, and then not help take in the groceries, she just walks inside and sits down. My dad continues to make excuses for her, like "it's a cultural differences." I personally don't see where being rude, trampy, and lazy has anything to do with her culture. I'm never rude to her, I just don't go the extra mile to reach out to her and be close to her, and this infuriates my dad. He told me, and I quote... "you need to reach out to my wife and be her friend" Basically now, my dad has went from being one of my closest people in my life, to us barely speaking at all.
Oh and she logged onto my computer at work with out me there, and managed to download a virus, and completely s***w up my hard drive... and I never got an apology from her or my father.
Tell me if I'm over reacting here, or if you have had a similar experience.
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