My dad's in the hospital.Is it ok for me to walk by myself?

Question

I'm getting married in 3 weeks my dad just found out he has lung & brain cancer.the doctors removed the mass today .I don't think he would be able to walk me down the isle. I have 10 uncles I have not asked anyone because I don't want to hurt any of my uncles feelings.So is it ok for me to walk by my self ?

Answer 1

I would push him down the Isle in a wheel chair next to me....

Of course its okay to walk alone, I did

Answer 2

I'm sorry to hear about your Dad. But you're more focused on your wedding day, and walking down the aisle.

Interesting set of piorities you've got going on there.  

Answer 3

If you really want to walk by your self go ahead, i have seen that happen a few times by the way maybe you can try talking to your uncles and they all can solve a solution? but first off let them know that you do not want to hurt any of their feelings

Answer 4

you need to get some kind of idea of just what his recovery time will be.  Now a days you just never know.  He just may be able to walk you  down that isle.  Or maybe be wheeled down in a wheel chair.  If not and you can't pick an uncle then by all means walk alone.  Many people have done just that.  

But talk with the doctors they will be in the best position to say what your father should or shouldn't do at that point.  But there is still a good chance that he could walk with you.  3 weeks is a lot of time.  I was out of the hospital in 2 weeks after open heart surgery.  you just never know.

Answer 5

maybe your dad could be wheeled down.  He will still be there hopefully.  It's his daughters special day and I think he would like to be part anyway he can if you ask.  3 weeks can be a long time for healing.

Answer 6

this must be so hard on u am so sry to hear bout ur dad, is their any chance u can wait til ur dad cums out? u can wlk down on ur own or ask ur mum but wont u want ur dad there?

Answer 7

It must be a stressful time for you and your family, planning a wedding and dealing with the recovery of a loved one. I would do whatever makes you feel most comfortable. Whether it be walking alone, with your mother, with an uncle or with a close friend. Whichever you chose, I hope your wedding is a day you won't ever forget. :)