My dad found a condom!

Question

My dad found a condom in my room. i am NOT sexually active.

He asked me weather i was and i said no. but could he think im sexually active?

he seemed quite shocked when he seen it but acted all calm about it..

Does he think im sexually active and hat should i do? please help me & only sensible answers please. thanks =]

Answer 1

I imagine you're more embarrassed than anything else right now, and you totally have my sympathies!!! I've had awkward moments like that.

It might be helpful to explain how you got the condom. Were they given out during a s*x ed class or something? Did you just get it as a joke or out of curiosity?  A condom is not like an illegal drug, and you shouldn't be in trouble for having one (it doesn't sound like you are). You can buy them in vending machines in some restrooms, and there is no age restriction. If you got it to have for when you're "ready," then at least you're being responsible. There are way too many teen pregnancies that are the result of not using protection. If you got it for a laugh, then just say so and know that one day you'll actually find this to be kinda funny.

Dads get really weirded out about stuff like this. They worry that someone is pressuring or taking advantage of you, or that you're doing something you aren't ready for, and the more calmly and maturely you can talk with him about it all, the better off it will be for you both. Hopefully talking with him about this will give you both a peace of mind. If he hasn't brought it up again, though, then trust that he believed you when you told him you weren't sexually active, and just move on. Don't prolong the awkwardness!

Why was he looking around your room, though? If it doesn't bother you, then no worries, but.....it would seriously bother me. If he was just putting something away for you, then that's okay, but if he was searching around, I'd be a bit worried. You might want to very casually (not defensively or angrily) ask him.

Best of luck.

: )

Answer 2

What were you doing with a Condom anyway?

Still make sure you don't leave them lying around

Answer 3

Wtf is a condom doing in your room then?

Answer 4

First up how old are you?If your a sensible kid and have never done anything to give your father doubt,i wouldnt worry too much.Your father was probally so shocked coz a condom was the last thing he expected to find in your room.

Second question to you.....why was the condom in your room?

Answer 5

well if you arent sexually active whose is it ? do you have any siblings? if you do... go talk to them...and wash your sheets ! haha

Answer 6

First of all, why is there condoms in your room if you are not sexually active? Secondly, sit him down and be honest with him rather than avoiding the subject.

Very best of luck

P xxxx

Answer 7

um... i am always sensible hehe just tell your dad you love him and talk abou it  

Answer 8

first off why did you have a condom in your room if your not having s*x? and he could think you are having s*x because thats not something you admit to your dad, sit him down and explain to him that you are not having s*x and why you had a condom in your room.

Answer 9

LOL that would've been the biggest shock for a father, they know they expect it, as they've been there done that but it's also a wake up call to say your daughter is growing up.

He will suspect, how can he not but if you act normally you'll be fine. Those that have done it has this "air" around them and become more crude

Answer 10

how did it get there.....? haha that stinks. you just have to hope he trusts you.  

Answer 11

so if your not sexually active

then why have a condom

thats like owning a car without a license  

Answer 12

well if you really aren't sexually active, just calmly say, you don't know where it came from or you had them just in case. Hey, atleast you are willing to use protection.

Although I must say, my dad would be quite shocked if I told him I was sexually active, even though I am 18.

Answer 13

Your dad probably has doubts about you now. My dad found a condom under my pillow when I was 12 and it was so embarrasing! But I told him that my friends and I were blowing them up for fun, which was true because I was not sexually active that young. Just be good and don't do anything gross!