My dad ignored me...help?

Question

I went on a weekend long trip with my dad and his new GF, but it sucked! She called me fat (i am a size 3....she's a size 00 by the looks of it) he ignored me when i talked to him, he yelled at me for choking on my food (haha on accident!), and he made me clean up the messes that we all had made. He was really rude! He has never done it before, and i understand that he was probably trying to make a good impression on his GF, but why did he choose to be rude to me? I mean i'm his daughter....doesn't that matter?

can you help me figure this junk out?

Answer 1

She is his girlfriend.

You are his daughter.

Which seems more important for a grown man?

Blood it thicker than "colored" water.  

Answer 2

He has to show that he can be "strong" and he is showboating for the new GF.

This is what you do: flatten out.

You let him say any comment he chooses and you do what he asks of you with no complaints, BUT with no emotions. You do it and be done.

he will eventually see that there is a problem and ask you.

THEN you unload on him

Answer 3

I wish I could tell you a reason on that one. My children are going through this right now with their dad. They were the center of his world and then she comes along and he yells at them, ignores them, doesnt help with support, clothes, etc. They have to clean after her kids and they come last in everything. And they are too wandering why? I wish I knew. I think to me, that if he wanted to make a good impression that he would be good to you and loving towards you and not yell. Hopefully he will wake up and treat you better and see how much he hurts you.

Answer 4

Tell him that he's not

allowed to treat you like dirt.

It's not okay for him to act that way,

even if he is your father, i'd throw my dad in a

lake in the middle of no where if he was being rude to me

and didn't do anything about his gf(if he had one) disrespecting me.

You should be his number one priority not his girl friend.

But that's just me.

:)

Answer 5

i realy doint know

Answer 6

just  tell   him

Answer 7

telll him he needs to calm down and its just a gf snd tell him he needs to help clean up and tell him he needs to stop ingoring you

Answer 8

I guess your dad is overwhelmed with his new girlfriend.Trying to make things perfect,no matter what he has to do.Maybe his girlfriend called you fat,because she sees your dad acting mean to you.So she thinks it's okay for her to do the same.Hopefully things will go for the better.Good luck.

Answer 9

maybe he figures it's time for some discipline, he may have taken it too far, but no father in his right mind would ever abuse their children to show off....

It sounds like was no big deal. Maybe new to you, but it's better for you if you adapt to it.

Answer 10

I hope you live till you are 120 and have plenty of time to think many many interpretations about what heppened and luckily maybe a little little light will be shed to your awful character that you have spent your entire life to learn how to cover. I will ruin my life in the meantime, trying to forgive myself for being so crazy about someone so undesreving and being so "up in the dreams" not to run away after the first sign. And she is SUCH A SIGN!