this is long, but please help...
here's the scoop...my dad has been involved in drugs for since i can remember. we lived in NC till i was 9. and it was real bad down there. he would pick us up from the bus and we would go in the city and witness him selling drugs(me and my bro being in the back seat). he would then tell me to never tell my mom where we went. but when she came home every day, i would tell her. my mom took me and my brother to a battered womens shelter(he never hit any of us, it was just to get away cuz she didnt no where else to go),but we ended up going back...my dad is also bipolar. so idk if that had anything to do with him getting into drugs. well i bet it did, b/c they stopped giving him shock treatment bc his insurance messed up. so that might be a factor, but its not an excuse to have stayed in it and pawned alot of our stuff for drug money. we had to go to the jail and bail him out repeatedly. one night he was up smoking around xmas, our tree caught on fire "from the lights on the tree" i think it was from him in someway and for some reason. he got us all up and we were safe, but then we moved out of state, where all our family was. my parents got divorced, and i havent spoke to him since. this all happened in 1998ish. after he ran his car thru my aunts house at the wee hours of the morning.
long story kinda short, i dont no what to do. he still lives like 5-10 min away from me, and im 19 now. all of my friends say i need to forgive him, even tho rumor has it (from some of his family members) that he is still hanging out with the wrong people and not on the right foot yet. so i say i cant ever forgive him. i hate him. but, i do thank him for showing me how to never end up. i dont no if i should try to contact him at all? cuz my friends are saying i will regret it when he dies or if something bad happens to him...i think i wont, but idk what to do. i no i should have seen a shrink for this back then, but i just kept it all bottled up inside and made it look like it doesnt affect me to not have a father...
please help. i no that was a long schpeel to listen to but i appreciate any advice...email me if u have further questions. there is alot more to the story but i dont feel like putting it all out here...
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