My dad is going to fight in the war?

Question

please help my dad is the only one i have that makes me happy=( he is always the one who makes me feel better and now hes gonna be gone for a long time i rember when i like 8 he had to to san antonio but that wasent bad because in afganistan he could die and if, that really scares me =( i barley turned 13 and he told me he was going on my birthday!!(worst b-day ever) i dnt know wat to do, how do i keep myself sane while hes gone i cry almost every night and i dnt want him 2 go but he has to plz help dose any1 have a family member in war and why cnt the f***** settle the dam war its killin millions of people and many people are left widdows and without fathers or mothers sometime plz help =(

Answer 1

Hey now, yes your sad, however this will not make things better. You need to be strong especially for your dad. Try not to make it harder on him. It will be tough, but he will make it through it. The likely hood of him becoming injured or dying is just as if he were to die in a car accident, ect in the US. You really have to support him and let him know that you are strong, and in this it will show him that you can handle it and that will make him feel better and that he can focus more on his mission. He needs to stay focused on his mission. He needs to know that you will be OK. This will make him do his job better and that way he will come back to you. Just be proud of your father and he will make you proud. Have faith and everything will turn out ok. I understand what you are going through, however I was on the side of what your father will be going through. Trust me he will think of you always and as long as you are strong, that will help him get through it. Please tell him that you are ok and that you cannot wait till he gets back. That will help him. You really need to help him so he can focus on his mission and not also have to worry about you. As long as he can stay focused, he WILL be ok. Trust me, and trust yourself.

Take care  

Answer 2

Why do I doubt the voracity of this question....

Answer 3

you dad sounds like a great guy. he and his buddies will end it you will see.

he needs to know that you support him and believe in him. thats your job in the war. soldier on princess.  

Answer 4

hes going to afganistahn....HE IN THE ARMY. its his JOB. stop complaining and be strong like your dad. remember..hes going through worse than you are...