My dad is not healthy??

Question

hes 54 or 55 i cant remember, but he is overweight and he has a bald head and there is a blue sort of mole on top which i do think could be a sign of skin cancer...but the thing is, that he NEVER goes the doc and he NEVER listens to advice when people tell him to take care of himself and to eat healthy and to go to the doc. he wont listen to me or my bro weve tried. what can i do???

PLEASE HELP!!

and im asking this question because my friends dad was just told he has prostate cancer and it just worries me that my dad may be worse off

Answer 1

wait until you get sick and refuse to go to the doctors, then tell him, you will go if he does.

Answer 2

Well its hard to get your dad to listen Im sure. Does he not have insurance? Sometimes people just dont want to know all the health problems that they fear are already happening.  You could use the thing that I always said to my dad... "dont you want to live to see your grand children" " Dont you want to live to see how I grow up."

On a natural health note... get a flat cotton pad and soak it in Braggs apple cider vinegar (the only kind for this, buy at health food store) and squeeze out until its just wet enough then attach it to your dads head with some medical tape or a band aid. Have him sleep with it on the mole for 2-5 nights. It will amaze you to see what happens to the mole. It will go away. I hope you give it a try. It only costs about 2.99 for a bottle of the vinegar.

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Answer 3

I understand your concern and your love for your father.

He is, however, an adult and can make his own decisions.   You can tell him your concerns, but don't keep trying to get him to follow your advice; men can be very stubborn, just as women can.

Good luck to both you and your father.

Answer 4

Tell him that you're concerned for him and ask him if he'll go to one of those everyman clinics where you go in once and they test you for everything.  

Answer 5

if u really wants to do something 4 him ,u should counsel ur father /u can do with the help of a psychologist