My dad killed himself when i was 13, and the year before he did it was h**l. will i have unhealthy romantic ?

Question

relationships because of my past, or is that a myth?

Answer 1

You know the old saying that it's not your fault for what someone else does. Well this holds true in this case. What your dad did wasn't right for him to do that, but it does not mean that you can't have a relationship with anyone. I don't know how old you are, but you need to put this away and start your life over with happy thoughts about yourself and what you want to do with your life. If you let this rule your life then yes you will have unhealthy relationships and that is not fair to you or to the person you want to be with. Just understand that you don't have to go down the same road that your father did. You can change that with support from friends and family. Stay on a path that is right for you and things will get better.

Answer 2

You can most certainly have very healthy relationships.  Just remember, if you go looking for disaster...you will find it!

Answer 3

It is horrible what happened to you but if you have a positive motivation in your life you can avoid negative from your experience. You just need to concentrate on your own life. Sometimes there is an unforgiveness between parents and kids...If so forgive your dad for what he did and go forward. Remember only good moments of your life with your dad. Use them when you feel that your past right behind you.

You can do better! You can make your life better! You deserve to be Happy and make somebody happy! You are the Captain of your life! Build it right and stable!

Good luck!

Answer 4

how does your love life have anything to do with your dad

Answer 5

be normal. forget the past and think about the future. ull be fine.

Answer 6

Acknowledging the problem and being self aware will prevent this from happening.

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Answer 7

You choose your own destiny and I think because you already identify it could be a problem, you should be fine because you will more than likely not try to be that why because you know its a possibility? Try not to let it effect you in your relationships and if it does get relationship counseling. Because a parent committing suicide is a very traumatic experience.

Answer 8

Your future will be the result of the choices you make for yourself now and everyday thereafter. You are aware of what happened. You now need to accept, forgive all and learn from the mistakes others have made. Don't wait until you have made the same mistakes. You are ahead, so, knowing what you know now, make a conscious effort to do the "right" thing. Your relationships will be what you choose them to be. Choose wisely.

Answer 9

You have to be the one to break the cycle in your family. There are families that go through generations of the same cycles. Abuse,Alcohol,suicide,drugs,beatings and so on. You get the picture. You make that bad cycle stop now. You change it for future generations. Your kids,your grand kids. They will never have the fear and bad feelings you experienced because you are gonna be better than that.And if ever in your life you start feeling depressed to the point that family can't help,please seek counseling. You do not want to fall into that cycle. And just a note for BEE,how can you ask this kid to answer your dumb question about a sink when we are talking about something so serious with this young man,you should be ashamed of yourself!!!

Answer 10

You were probably shooken up for a while but I think you should let him pass away. He may come up a lot in your mind but you should try to move on. Anyways it just depends it you dwell on it.

Answer 11

Only if you dwell on it.

If you know that your dad had issues and accept it, then move on with your life you should be ok.

Just because your life was c**p in the past doesn't mean it's destined to be that way in the future.

Good luck on your journey.