My dad sometimes fondles ,grabs and presses my mom's b***s in front of me....i dont like it...i get embarassed

Question

wat should i do ????

Answer 1

Speak to your mother about that.  Tell her to make him stop while your around, otherwise they could have privacy well doing so.  But be nice when asking, at least they love each other.  Or emititly leave the room when this happens.  I wouldn't get embarrassed myself, but I might smile.  Your getting just a tad bit upset about this, I mean if friends were over and this contiues, then you should ask your mother or father.  

My dad used to slap my mother's bottom all the time.  They stop doing that now, but it was lovely to see they cared for each other.

Answer 2

let ur mum know that they should do these behind closed doors, not in front of you!

Answer 3

Wow that's pretty... just close your eyes and walk out of the room.

Answer 4

Let them know that you don't like it. AND MAKE THEM TAKE IT SERIOUS. cuz usually couples ignore others objections to these kind of behaviour. But as you are their invaluable treasure, if you talk to them seriously and let them know how you feel about that, they will respect you.

Answer 5

LOL  understandable. My dad did that kind of stuff w/my mom when we were growing up. But now, looking back, it was just their way of flirting or whatever and I obviously got over it. They loved each other. They've been married almost 40 years. 40 YEARS, that's almost unheard of in this day and age. So, be happy, be VERY happy that you have a good home with a mom and dad who obviously love each other. And when they do that, just in a joking, teasing way say something like, "eeewww c'mon you guys" or "hey, kid types in the room" or something like that, and leave the room so you don't have to see. But be lighthearted about it, so they know you are kidding...but still get the point.  

Answer 6

what should you do?  Be thankfull your father loves your mother and wants to put his hands all over her no matter who's around.

Answer 7

I'm sorry you are so sensitive. Just tell them that you don't like it and turn away.

You'll survive.

Answer 8

Just tell me that you don't like that and please stop doing that

Answer 9

Tell him that it makes you uncomfortable, or at least tell your mom.  Don't worry too much, my dad did all sorts of things like that to my mother in front of me, she apparently enjoyed the attention.  It was disgusting, but I survived without a scratch.  I truly feel for you though.

Answer 10

i would speak to your mum and tell her it makes u uncomfortable and does she enjoy it? ( not being perverted but i am wondering if its him or both of them)

good luck

Answer 11

Tell him you don't like it.

Answer 12

oh gosh, it's like training a dog...

everytime he does this (whether or not your mom enjoys it), clear your throat loudly. if he hears you, give him a stern angry look, then leave the room. ignore him for a while (like half a day or something) and sooner or later he'll get the message that you hate this kind of behavior and feel it is inappropriate to do in front of others.

note: if he continues, talk with your mom. convince her that this kind of behavior makes you uncomfortable and embarassed. if it gets right down to it, talk to your father directly. be firm with him. let him know that you're happy that they love each other very much, but tell him that this kind of stuff should be left in the bedroom.

Answer 13

Walk out of the room?!  Be happy that they obviously have a happy, loving relationship!  Tell them to get a room!!  Get over it!

Answer 14

be happy that ur parents are still crazy bout each other!!

Answer 15

Speak to your dad in private and tell him you feel uncomfortable and he should stop it, if he doesnt then you can talk to your mum about it and she can tell your dad to stop it...

Answer 16

Well, if ur embarrass to talk to ur father about that, well try coughing, Sacarstic coughing when he does that. Or u can try to like make him feel that u r present there, like making some noise...like "eww..","come on man...","WTF"....Etc etc