My dad thinks im doing drugs. what do i tell him?

Question

So last night my parents told me i should get back into shape before i have a camp in a couple weeks. and i always take it the wrong way like there trying to make me lose weight. so it makes me mad. and so i got a bad attitude and my dad like flew off the handle. he was like your mom thinks different but i think your doing drugs. and i couldnt ball my eyes out because he could have thought i was. and i couldnt yell at him for thinking that or he could have thought i was hiding something. and then he comes into my room later and was like i hope your not doing drugs because if you are.. well ill let you imagine what id do.

i have never done drugs i hate smoking and ive never drank before.

i dont know what to tell him because now when we talk for 5 seconds he's like do you have anything to tell me?

i dont know what to do. any ideas?

Answer 1

if your dad and mom trust you at all they should beleive you when you say that you are not doing drugs. most people arent like that but its good to know that there are people like you in the world. and it takes some real guts to tell everyone what they said.

if they still dont believe you take a drug test.

Answer 2

How about saying : "I'm not doing drugs old man."

Answer 3

Wow, no offense but your dad sounds like a real @sshole.   Anyways, if I were you, and if you really aren't doing drugs, I would tell your dad that you want to take a drug test.   You pee in a cup and send it off to a lab or you could probably get one done at your doctors office.  Most likely, just the fact that you are telling him you want to go in for the test will be enough to show him that you aren't on drugs.  But if it's not then the test results will prove it for you.

Answer 4

Tell him you'll p**s for him and let him test the pee if he really has to go saying things like that. My mom doesn't trsut me either lol, she smells me when I come home, cause last summer she caught me drinking.

Answer 5

tell him to bring you to the doc and get a drug test done and then make him apologise when it comes back negative!!

Answer 6

well there isnt anything to do about it but whatever you do dont start doin them. just keep on looking him in the eye and telling the truth and then if he still doesnt beleive you then its ok cuz he wont ever catch you if you arent doin it. in the mean time make sure to behave really super well and then his susspissions might fade. i totally agree that drugs are discusting. another route is a drug test. dont get too  mad. He's just trying to make sure you dont ruin your life.

Answer 7

tell him to get you tested

Answer 8

tell him give me a freakin drug test if u think im doing it. then he will get off ur back

Answer 9

Just say, 'Dad, trust me... I don't do drugs... drugs are bad mmmkay'

Answer 10

My father was like that, too. He was verbally abusive, though, so when he would say mean things to me and I would yell back, he Immediately accused me of doing drugs, so I would tell him "Okay, start the car, let's go to the hopsital and get me tested, then" That usually shut him up. Oh, and kudos to you for not doing any of those things.

Answer 11

Write him a letter... write an email to dr. phil... no joke.  Good luck or take a lie detector test.  or a drug test.

Answer 12

Ask him what proof does he have that makes him think you take drugs. Then talk to him about it.

EDIT: To be honest, I wouldn't take a drug test. It's a matter of trust. You told him you didn't take drugs. Unless you show signs of taking them, he should somewhat believe you.

Answer 13

I think that you should sit your parents down, it may feel uncomfortable at first.. but your parents are probably just feeling  a little scared because of how kids are nowadays, as you get older you get more independence and perhaps they are just feeling like they are loosing ties with you..... anyways, i think that you should ask them if you could talk to them, and sit them down.. don't get mad or yell or get really upset.. just tell them that your upset that they are making accustations of you doing drugs and such.. tell them that you appreciate that they are concerned but that you never have or want to do drugs and explain how you feel about them. Tell them that it hurts that they are constantly thinking that you are doing drugs and hopefully they will explain why they felt they they way they did and you guys can get things resolved.  The only way things will get better is if you make the inititive to go to them and explain how YOU feel about everything cause it will open the door to conversation for both of you guys.

Answer 14

Tell your ****** dad you want to pee in a cup while he watches.  Fill the cup 3/4 to the top and toss it in his face.

Answer 15

Offer to take a drug test, that will solve any and all issues.

Answer 16

Look him in the eye and say it and if he STILL don't trust him you can offer to take a blood test. I think they're free in the UK as my friend did one to prove the same thing to his mum but I don't know how you go about getting one done. They check for alcohol & drugs in your blood so if you can get one it'll prove you don't do anything.

Answer 17

Go right up to him and tell him that you can prove you are not using drugs and tell him you will take a drug test. Tell him to set it up with the doctor cause you don't want him thinking you would do that.

Answer 18

why dont you go and buy one of those urine test things which show if you are or not on drugs? x*x

Answer 19

well if you are not doing drugs why not suggest going to the store and buying an at home pee test they are in the medicine aisle and are like 20 dollars I think..and take one!

Answer 20

well simply tell him that your not into that kind of stuff and that you think he should trust you more,and that your parents should watch what they say and make sure it doesnt come out wrong and sound offensive,because thats really where it started from where i see it.

Answer 21

tell him to take you to a doctor,

get a p**s test

and prove him wrong.

Answer 22

Okay your dad has become suspicious for no reason. Sounds to me like you may have an older sibling that may have been using drugs with or without you knowing. It may have started in a similar way and he does not want to see you go down that path. What he is doing is not the thing to do.  You will make choices based on what you think you should do. Talk to him if you can, tell him your decisions and reasons for making them. Prove yourself as responsible and show them you are smart enough to make good choices. And if they are worried about you being in shape it is your body make it what ever shape you feel comfortable in. Good luck . If your dad doesn't budge he is probably just a d**k.