My daughter's boyfriend moving in,shes 15

Question

my daughter is living at my moms, i let her live there when i moved to another city 200 miles away so she could continue to go to the same high school. Shes 15 and her boyfriend is 18, they have been together for about a year, he graduated last may. He got a job a couple days ago and my daughter went to her first day back at high school today.

my mom and daughter mentioned to me that he could move in since he has a job now and his parents kicked him out cause hes 18 now.

My response was, thats not our problem if hes kicked out and I let it be known that iam against this, shes 15 and of course any person knows this isnt right and maybe not even legal.

WELL, what I want to know is where can i find out about any laws about this, something I can show my mom or maybe scare them away from this.

Answer 1

Wow that was some story. 15 and a 18 year old is illegal. You can see him but if he has s*x with you he could go away for many years and have something bad on his record. You can find about laws anywhere. I would reccommend either the library. They might have something or just go to your local police department or call them. I understand how you feel about him being kicked out but it isn't your problem. Plus if you live together trust me you will fight all the time and things will change plus I don't think your mom would be keen on you and him living together because of how old you are. Trust me I have heard plenty of stories as probably you have too. I am just trying to help you out.

Answer 2

i was in the same situation with my bf. he was 19 and i was 15. my mom let him move in  with me on multiple times. long story short, i am 24 years old, we have a 2 yr old and have yet to be married. she shouldn't him move in because she is going to forget about herself at this young an age and start being concerned with only him. aside from it being illegal, she is basic going to be his "wife" without him marrying her. please

don't let her for the sake of her future let him move in. maybe some friends of his can get together and get a place. and don' t let her move there with him. now i know why my mom wanted me to wait. not only does it put you in a different category but then she will be thinking of him and her and not just herself. and for proof ask them to email me . i can let her know about the headache it can cause. [e-mail]. also you can google law sites with the laws based on the state shes in . just enter  a catch phrase and you'll be able to start there.

Answer 3

Just let him move in.

They been together for  a year.

and i pretty sure it is legal because my friends boyfriend is 18 and she is 16 and he moved in with her.

Answer 4

I don't understand why you gave her up for someone else to raise.Of course she won't have your morals because you aren't there for her. I've moved several times in my life with 2 kids. They meet new friends and we always remain a family. If she is only 15 move her home where she belongs she obviously needs supervision.It's called being a parent. If not you'll be a grandma soon raising her kid. As for him . PRESS CHARGES ON THE PERV.

Answer 5

personally  i think you are asking for trouble, i guarantee you will be a grandma before you are ready...

Answer 6

Unless you want her having a baby at 15, this is not the way to go. There is more than "he's 18, he's gotta leave the house" as a reason for him kicked out. My husband was kicked out at 16 because he was fighting and hitting his sister and mother. Reason enough, eh? Well, he told me it was because his mom didn't want to raise him/ feed him. That was part of the reason, not the whole reason.

I say you encourage him to work harder and find his own place to live. Your daughter needs to keep her head straight and it would be very different if she was 18 too and had a job and was out of school.

i can't believe she would even be allowed to date someone who's considered an adult. That's a pretty big age/ maturity gap. Since he wont be living with you, talk to your mom and ask her not to allow this. She kind of has to live through your parenting in order to make the best for your daughter. Good luck!