My 5yo wants her ears pierced. I won't let her for a few reasons:
1. I want to be sure she'll remember it was her choice.
2. she loves to rough & tumble & I don't think she'd keep them clean.
3. I want to be sure she won't change her mind when its too late
4. I don't want her to anything that hurts.
After a long phase of "go on, go on, go on, go on...", I tried a different tack. I told her I got mine pierced when I was 6 (it was a "rite of passage" where I grew up, girls usually got them done the day before their first Holy Communion), "...and they got infected so I had to take them out and let them heal up. Why do you think I never got them pierced again? Because it hurts! Suppose I took you, a young child, to get yours done, when I'm too scared to get them myself, that just wouldn't be right. No way. You'll have to wait til you're older.
She looked at me and said "so the real reason I have to put up with ugly clipons & magnets that keep falling off is because you're a wuss!
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