My daughter has a temper problem i put her in a stroller and she screams and stuff what am suppose to do?

Question

she is only two and she has an additued she always rushes threw things and she dont never want to get stuff done. or i have to help her like puting her shoes on and getting dress and she already knows how. like i already put her head in her shirt i ask her to put her arms in. its either she doon't look and puts her arm in the head of the sleeve sometimes while she looking everywhere else. or she runs away from me on the bed while I'm asking her to help me put her close on the when i catch her its like puting close on a slippery wild bull then bout time i finish she slips it all off in two seconds. hhheeeeeeellllllppp. i am also trying to get her to calp down and relax she is always hype runnin around jumping crying . i just need to know who my baby is with out always seeing her crying or mad althe time and she oonly 2.. i am very independent and my mom told me i always was i want her to be that way.

Answer 1

I suggest you read The Strong Willed Chiild by Dr. James Dobson. It helped me tremendously.

Tell her ahead of time what you are about to do and what you expect her to do. Don't ever give in to her crying fits. She's trying to see how long it takes for you to cave.

Answer 2

Uh oh, mommy. Your daughter is testing you! Now's the time to show her when you are serious and when you are playing. All kids go through stages where they will test their parents. It's annoying and frustrating, but it's gotta happen. When she fights, tell her no, be firm, but don't be mean...the meaner you are, the meaner she'll be.

  She's going to learn by your example. Offer her choices about stuff (Do you wanna put on your shirt or do you want Mommy to do it?), but make sure the end result is always the same (in this case, the shirt is going on, no matter who puts it). If she sees you losing your cool, she's gonna act worse! So be sure to do the hair-pulling, screaming, and banging of your head against a wall where she can't see!