My daughter has begun to go clubbing etc .. but why do i suffer the hangover pains and she doesn`?

Question

also, yesterday she went to reading festival and didn`t sleep all night, so why am i the one who feels knakkered even though i think i slept very well.

is there some sort of empathy between us??

Answer 1

it must be ur over-protectiveness or caring towards ur daughter. there might be some connection between u, like if something happens to u she could feel it and if something happens to her u can feel it. not only if something happens but u could also sense her feelings. it is very rare.

maybe u will find ur answer here,

1.http://www.nytimes.com/2005/12/25/fashio...

Answer 2

You love your daughter and are unable to have a deep sleep pattern when she is out.  Also there is something called sympathy pains.  Men sometimes get them when their wives give birth.

And yes you and your daughter were connected physically for nine months so why not now and why not emotionally and physiologically?

Answer 3

does your daughter tend to drink a lot of water? a hangover comes from dehydration. I've always drank a lot of water and I have never gotten a hangover.

Why do you feel knackered... I'd agree that if you tend to worry about her when you're out, then chances are, you're not sleeping as well as you think you are. If there was empathy between you, then SHE would be feeling this way as well (I'm empathic).  

Answer 4

that could very well be. the two of you could also be psychics your selves.

Answer 5

I believe that what you experience is genuine, I experienced the same thing. One morning I woke up and I had a neck krick to only one side of my neck (the right side) which is odd because I never had a neck krick like that. i normally have it around my entire neck. Anyway I told my dad about it and about three hours after I felt as if my dad was having the same neck krick. So I called him and I asked him if his neck was kricked too and he said yes so I asked him to the ride side and he said yes it was on the right side only not on the whole neck. This was bizarre because my father had no neck pain at the time I told him I had neck pain. Me and my dad has never had a krick neck before at the same time especially on the same side. I find it quite amazing that non of the answerers believe you and some of them actually believe in the paranormal.

Answer 6

Maby you sleep restlessly worrying about her or she wakes you up coming home at odd hours or the stress of having you baby girl out in the big wide world...shes young they can deal with no sleep ect..

Answer 7

Maybe you're just getting older.

Answer 8

Maybe you're thinking of the days when you used to go out clubbing.

And you're having a physical reaction to those memories.

Just like certain odors or sounds can trigger memories.

Answer 9

Maybe you're taking the pain for her. You know how mothers don't want their kids to suffer. I remember when my son was going through something bad. I remember I had terrible nights..trying to take the pain for him. When I'd ask him if he was able to sleep..he said yes. Maybe that's what you're doing...whether you asked for it or not. Maybe she had something she needed to do the next day and couldn't do it with a hangover...or lack of sleep. Stuff happens between parents and kids...esp. mothers.  Or ...maybe she's not drinking much but you're taking on the hangover anyway..thinking you're helping her. (I'm just guessing.)

Answer 10

Is she drinking as much as you etc? you might just be stressing about her to much since she is your daughter but in the end everyone is different even if they are your child. It could just be that her mum has given her the DNA for high alcohol tolerance etc.

Answer 11

maybe you should stop drinking so much lol jk