My daughter is 14months has bad behavior should i be worried?

Question

my daughter always hits other girls and bites and scratches other people and throws fits when she doesnt get her way. what should i do ?

Answer 1

yes....u need to something or she will be a total brat.. one of those kids in the mall screaming at her parents and acting like a spoiled brat.

Answer 2

anytime she starts to throw a fit or bites someone put her in a corner.  A bathroom is always good because if she likes to through stuff during fits there is usually nothing she can reach there. If you dont fix it now it will only get worse.

Answer 3

all kids go through this my son use to bite and pull hair. We were just very consitent in telling him NO that hurts or we would pretend to cry. Most kids will stop when they develop empathy for others.

Answer 4

you have to discipline her now, remember cute little kids grow into fully fledged adults and this is not acceptable at all. when she does it you tell her off and take her away from the other child, if she cries and screams so what, take her away and tell her she cannot play with other children if she  behaves that way with them, next time it happens do the same thing, if you keep taking her away from her friends she will soon realise this is not acceptable and will stop. worked for me

Answer 5

At 14 months, children do not know right from wrong. Don't spank or hurt her, just look her in the eye and say NO firmly. Or tap her mouth. They understand after a while of doing so. I would only be concerned after 2 or 3 years old. Good luck!

Answer 6

Try explain to her that this isn't allowed. Make sure you deal with it now, because later it will be worse.

Answer 7

stop the behavior immediately. my son would throw fits, it took me about 30 minutes to stop the fits completely. he'd throw myself down on the ground, screaming and kicking and grabbing my leg. i'd shake him off my leg and walk out of the room. he'd follow and start up again. i'd shake him off my leg and again leave the room. pretty soon he learned that throwing fits only made mommy walk away. so he stopped. as for hitting, biting and scratching, DO NOT hit bite or scratch back, thinking your teaching her if "how do you like it". instead, pick her up and sit her in a corner, facing out, not facing the wall. the idea is to give her a time out to cool off and it allows her to SEE what she's missing out on. if you do nothing, it only gets worse. if she's a screamer, as hard as it is at first. never give in to her screams. its harder on you than her if you can not respond, or leave the room.

Answer 8

Are you the parent or not? Discipline her and teach her that kind of behavior is not acceptable. I would start spanking her cute little booty!

Answer 9

correct her behavior NOW before it gets worse - remove her from the situation immediately and give her a time out.  Physically take her hands in yours and pull her away from the others she is hurting - Strong, "NO HITTING!"  Let her throw a fit when she doesn't get her way; she'll learn that nothing she says or does can influence your disapproval of her behavior.

Answer 10

Um, discipline her!  If you do nothing or not enough, it will only get worse and you would ultimately be hurting her.

Answer 11

disapline her!! it'll only get worse if u dont do anything about it now

Answer 12

I think that you should start spanking that little 14 mth butt. This behavior NEEDS to stop NOW!

Answer 13

Yes you should be worried. a little girl in pre-pre school bit my daughter (age 2 at the time) and left a HUGE mark/broken skin. I gave that mother a total chewing out.

You need to stop her from biting now- before she bites another child. That's disgusting and can cause terrible infections.

A firm , "NO." and a hard look in the eye.. do not waver.. will put her in her place. Don't giggle, don't let it slide, let her know it's mean.

Then say, "That hurt- DON'T do it again."

When she throws fits, pick her up and lay her where she won't harm herself and walk off. Do not amuse her by staying around to watch that kind of attitude. I never rewarded my children with an audience during tantrums.