My daughter is driving me Nuts ?

Question

My Daughter has what i personaly think it's (a high functioning Autism)

the doctor didn't dignoised her with anything, he told me that she's all Normal, he did head scan, brain scan you name it. She's perfectly normal.I been training my daughter to use the bathroom for more then 5 yrs.she gives me a really really tought time,she escapes from her bedroom window, and go off somewhere where she doesn't belong. she holds her p**p with her hand, she poops on the carpet,she's 7 going to be eight.she knock big holes into the walls,she doesn't listen to me,i been dealing with that for more then enough, she's getting worse and every year, and i have an infant to take care of, but i have to keep an eye on her all the time, b/c if i don't she do bad stuff. i had it up to here with her, i am afriad im gonna loose my 2 sons b/c of her. i want to put in a living facilty somewhere in northern of illinois. but so far, i can't find any school that could keep her there. and i am thinking on putting her up for adoption. even though i love her to death but i had it with her.she's stressing me, and i don't want anything bad to happen to her b/c we live next to a busy street. and she might she ran out one day, cause it happend b4 and i don't know what i should do.

Answer 1

if she is 7 and cant talk at all then your going to the wrong dr. there is ovioulsy something wrong if she hasnt learned to talk yet. try a different dr. and i cant belive you would consider putting your child up for adoption.

yahoo answers cant help you you need to talk to the drs and ask them what step you should take

Answer 2

How could you to a poor child? I understand she is stressing you but ADOPTION? Your daughter can't help being like that and you shouldn't give up on her. NEVER GIVE UP ON HER. Don't you ever. Now, take her to a doctor and tell him/her about her problems. If the doctor doesn't think anything is wrong and doesn't do anything then you better get a new doctor. Go to someone to talk to and maybe they can help you. YOU NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR CHILD. You hear? Take her to a professinal!!! Take her to someone that can help with those problems. And make sure your husband helps.

I again repeat NEVER GIVE UP ON HER.  

Answer 3

she may need some punishment .. spankings our world does not teach respect anymore ...  

Answer 4

I agree with the 1st answer. I also think you should try another docter and have them check her again. Some times the symptoms are there but the problem doent show up in the brain untill later. DO NOT GIVE HER UP FOR ADOPTION! many childen turn out worse because there parents did that. JUst love her and dont yell and scream just love her as much as you can and make sure she understands this.  

Answer 5

Wow i'd get a new dr or maybe take her to a behavior specialist! if all els fails maybe adoption is the next step i think you could do an open adoption where you have visits but i would deffinatelly try the first two thing i said first good luck and God bless your family

Answer 6

Please Please Please take your kid to a psychologist sounds like she has some underlying issues.

Answer 7

i would get help from a specialist like a therapist.

My nephew does this kind of thing but he has gotten a lot better with help.

and if you think it would be best for her to be put up for adoption do it but I really think that's a little extreme but if its best for every one do it.  

Answer 8

Hi... Maybe it could be time to see a psychologist or therapist with her. Sounds like there are major issues underlying it all and no one here will be qualified to tell you exactly what to do :S

Answer 9

i understand  you

even though people shon upon putting you child up for adoption theres nothing else you can do i seriously wouldnt be able to handle alll that you can try putting her up for adoption seh knows you love her because if you didnt you would have not even dealed with it it might sound horrible to think of it but i would personally i would put her up for adoption theres nothing more you can do if you have been teaching her for her whole life potty training her and everything and its not going through her head you cant do anything else or if you cant possible put her up for adoption you can put her in those "special clubs" for kids where they go there and learn and if its far away from where you live you can find one make arrangments for her to stay there over her "school year" there i really hope you dont lose your family have you talked to your daughters father about this?

but i really do wish the best for you your a saint for putting up with that i feel bad  

Answer 10

The Blood of Jesus!!!

It is time to pray!

Take her to a behaviorist and see what alternatives they come up with.