My daughter ?

Question

My daughter is 13 almost 14 and is a 34D. I know that she feels awkward because her twin sister is a 32C. Just yesterday a group of guys cat-called at her as she and I went into a store. How can I comfort her? Or at least let her know that she isn't a complete freak?

Answer 1

tell her that guys like that don't matter and to be comfortable with who she is... i know this can be hard, considering her age, but it can be done

Answer 2

I saw on tyra that this lady was a something d and put a minimizer bra and it made her look like a laarger B!! sO IF SHE IS SELF CONSIOUS this may help.

XOXO

Answer 3

this wont help sorry, but what is 34D or 32C?

also you could ask her sister to comfort her, if they are close other than that im not sure

Answer 4

It's okay. I mean, I have a friend who was a 34D when she was like 12 going on 13.

Let her know it's okay and to ignore jerks like them.

lools,

I hope I was of help...! (=

Answer 5

I dunno my big chested daughters ...like their b*****s and dont take sexual harrassment from anyone ..we will publically humiliate any boy /dirtbag adult man who even dares to make a rude comment

Answer 6

get her a back brace, or take her to the chiropractor. i would be miserable with b*****s that big. ow.

this is what hormones in the milk do. other than surgery she'll have to live with it. she can carry a cell phone programmed to the cops. it is harassment. its a tough spot to be in.

Answer 7

I was a 34D at that age, too, so I know how she feels.  I was extremely self-concious about it, embarrassed and ashamed.  It took me a long time to become comfortable with my body and accept and appreciate it.  So you need to be very careful of how you go about comforting her.  Make sure that she never gets the impression that you feel she's to be pitied, or that you feel sorry for her.  That will just reinforce the feeling that there's something "wrong" with her.  If you sense that she's feeling bad about herself, just tell her how beautiful and lucky she is.  When the guys cat-call, let her know it's because they think she's pretty.  Remind her that a lot of girls would give anything to have larger b*****s, and that someday, she'll realize how fortunate she is.  When you go shopping, help her choose clothes that will flatter her figure and that she'll feel comfortable in; clothes that will help her like the way she looks.  You can even buy her minimizing bras - but let her know that the purpose is not to "hide" what she's got, but to help shape them in the most attractive way so that clothes will fit bet better.  

One thing that always made me feel better was talking to other people with my same "condition."  My aunt and my grandmother both had big b***s, and they always joked around with me about it.  They'd tell me, "If you've got it, flaunt it!"  It made me feel like I was part of some special club, that my mom and sister weren't a part of!

But most of all, just keep reminding her that she's completely normal and beautiful the way she is, and that she should be proud of the body that God gave her.