My daughter tryed to run away?

Question

i just found out my daughter tryed to run away? i found a note in her old notebook that says 1.run away 2. (blank) and shes been acting out a lot lately.doesnt like to leave her room or hang with friends. I dont know what to do anymore.She's not herself.she also has a backpack packed with watter bottles,make-up,her purse,some clothes and mp3/books. how should i tell her that i found the note. What's the best way to find out what wrong weve tryed couseling but she doesnt talk.I dont want to lose my baby girl.

Answer 1

Yes, You shouldn't read her things even if "accidentally". I'd get mad with my mum if she did that. No Privacy!

Just be normal with her. Show her you love her - That's all we need. Do give us space.

No other kids?

I'm sorry you feel sad and worried.

Answer 2

Your 14 yr old has no rights in your house.  If you want to check her stuff, that is your right and your duty.  She wants to live in your house, she can live by your rules.  You can tell her you saw her note and if that is what she wants to do....do it.  Go.   If she goes, it won't be for long.  But you have to call her bluff...you can talk til your tongue falls out but you are the dumbest, most stupid....person she has ever seen.  that is what she thinks....and she will continue to think it til the hormones that are raging w/in her body have made their trek to the brain and she is able to figure out how to handle herself.   It will take about 4-5 yrs....then she will be back. I had 3....turned my hair white.  2 boys, no problem   Oh, and if she does go, turn her into the police....they will pick her up scare h**l out of her,  even take her to juvenile hall, if that doesn't scare her,  nothing will.   This is called tough love and it is all that could possibly work.  You cannot talk her into staying, she has to come to that  decision by herself....after she  is caught on the street.  Good luck.

Answer 3

slap her

Answer 4

it may be that she has a boyfriend or did she could of been trying to leave with him but then maybe he said no after all and maybe not she is depressed just talk to her and let her know that you are there for her and just for a while keep her with you take her places do fun things shopping fun places and see how it goes from there

Answer 5

u cannot tell her u found it. unless u want to live in a h**l house. maybe u need to talk to her friends

Answer 6

Wow..you really need to talk to her..forget counseling..you need to step it up ..you should be worried.. i answered your other question about your daughter on the computer so late.. i gotta say i dont know if you are being for real with everyone or your just playin a joke..im a lil suspicious but now i see you are either really bored or you really need some help..

Answer 7

If she IS running away. He can ask her why she is leaving away. But do not gave her money. Because when she is out of $$$$ she will return to your hugs.

Trust me, this happen before to my friend's friend.

Answer 8

next time she runs away, call the cops and report her as a runaway. one of my friends used to do that til her step mom had her arrested and it scared her straight

Answer 9

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FIND SOMETHING BETTER TO DO!

Try some spell check as well. It's TRIED, not tryed.

Answer 10

Is this the same daughter that you were asking us what you should do because she was "humping the doornob and spanking herself?" yeah, an adult that has a 14 year old, knows that the word tryed is spelt tried.

Answer 11

You need to stay calm. At dinner tell her that you found a peice of paper saying that you wanted to run away. Have you guys had any fights recently? You need to have a good talk to her. But be calm, getting angry is the worse thing to do. Talk about her life, and don't judge her. Rember a hug at the end :)

But you have to make sure she is happy at home and at school. Do you know her friends numbers? Try ringing her friend and asking if she is O.K. If the friend really cares about her then she should open up.

Answer 12

I "ran away" when i was 17.

I was living in Tennessee.

And "ran away" to Florida To live with the Fiance, who im with today.

FIRST thing.. DO NOT GO OFF OR GET MAD AT HER.

It makes her wanna do it more.

2nd.. Ask her where she wants to run away too. and why.

Just be really nice and gental about the stuff.

And then again...

If you found it in her old notebook that means you were being nosey in her stuff...

Which she thinks of that...

She might deside to run away still.. because she will feel like she has no privacy to do anything.