My daughter who is 7 years old is very difficult to handle.?

Question

She has tandrums all the time and its very difficult for me to get her down to study. She throws her pencils and erasers around and i have to pick them up all the time. She tell me packing her school bag is my problem and not hers. how do i get her to understand and do things on her own.

Answer 1

Be firm with her. Don't give her a choice and don't do it for her.

Answer 2

hello. i had an assignment very similar to this and my special education teacher had this website to give to me.

it can be used for teachers, parents, nannies. etc.

there is a lot of good things on the website for me to point out one good thing.

hope her behavior improves. and good luck!

Answer 3

I agree with Maria, I would take EVERYTHING of joy away from her and make her earn back every single thing with good behavior. I think parents today try to be their childs friend instead of the parent. She is the child and you ARE in charge, not the other way round. A good swift smack on the backside (hands only) may be called for.  If you don't find a way to get this under control right now, your life will be a living h**l come teenage years. Good luck to you

Answer 4

You ever tried spanking her then punishing her by taking away all her favorite things. You child is a child so treat her like one, don't let her think she's on your level. I remember a time when kids didn't get sassy with their parents Whatever happened to the good ol days.

Answer 5

beat her...not u know like abuse, but she obviously needs a whoopin..!

Answer 6

The next time your daughter does something like that give her a spanking and tell her that if she ever acts that way again she will get another.  If you are consistent she will learn her lesson and stop, if you are not or do not spank her hard enough or long enough than she will continue to walk all over you.

Answer 7

UM...I don't know if anyone every told you but kids are NOT switches. She's just not going to do things you tell her because you're her mother...you have to teach her to listen and pick up after herself. Now it sounds like you've been picking up for her, doing her bag, and pretty much spoiling her until now. All of the things she's doing now...are things she's learned from you.

You need to start letting her do her own things and being responsible for them. That means that you cannot break down and do it for her in the end. And you must continue to teach her the things she needs to learn...like cleaning her room, picking up after herself, doing her homework...or when she's older you are going to have a HARD time.

Answer 8

you are the adult she is the child but that seems to be confusing to you.  say what you mean.  mean what you say.  give her consequences.  i honestly would take away EVERYTHING that she likes and let her earn it all back slowly.  all she should have is school.  talk to her teacher about what is going on at school.  you really need to be involved with that and ask her teacher if they think that your child should be tested for any disabilities or disorders.  they are trained to see if it is really a problem or if your child just needs some discipline.  good luck

Answer 9

Stop packing HER school bag for one.  Stop picking up the pencils she throws for another.  She is doing those things because she knows you will fix it...you will pick up what she throws and you will pack her bag and she can be as lazy as she wants to be...What will happen if you don't pick up the pencils...she won't finish HER homework and won't get graded for it.  What will happen if you don't pack HER back pack for her?  She won't have the things she needs with her in class when it comes time to get them out...You probably go in and wake her for school and do battle with her there too.  She is old enough to take care of her own things.  Or will you be doing it all when she gets into college to.  Stop enabling her behavior if you want the behavior to stop.