My daughter wore?

Question

a short skirt and she went to school and she was on a pole and she wasn't wearing underware and she would bend down infront of guys and her teacher saw this is her father what should i do to her she's in middle school

Answer 1

Ok, reading through your other questions I have concluded that you don't belong here on YA, you are one twisted pup.

Answer 2

I would consider getting her some thereapy in all seriousness...chances are very high she is already sexually active...its slim to none that a virgin would dress like they worked at the "bunny-ranch"(no offense).Whatever is causing the impulse for her to need to get attention by doing that is by far what my primary concern would be along with a full std panel done on her. If it doesnt get corrected fast it will soon be a situation that is completely out of countrol. This isnt anything compared to what she could have been seen doing. So early intervention im my opinion is already passing very fast. I would seriously get a counselor or thereapist involed asap. she will hate you for it now...but it could save her life!All the best and good luck with this...its bound to be a hard long road ahead.

Answer 3

1- Buy her proper clothes

2- Tell her to get her act together

3- Change your name to a GUY's name

4- Grow a pair

Answer 4

just dont let her out o the house until she has got on some under wear, make her aware of the dangers like peedos and pervates n how people will abuse her iff she continues this, sadli i learnt the hard way. n another thing you could try. not buy her short skirts

Answer 5

Well; honestly....once this has started it's only downhill from there. You can tell her that she should wear age-appropriate attire and monitor her clothing and ground her....but when kids are on to something...they ARE on to something. Keep on eye on her , and welcome to the teenage years.

Answer 6

OMG!!!!! NO AFFENCE DADI-O BUT YOUR DAUGHTER IS A TOTALLY ATTENTION FREAK!!! YOU SHOULD SEND HER TO MILITARY SCHOOL!!! WERE SHE CANT DO THINGS LIKE THAT!! THAT IS HORRIBLE!! AND IF SHE THINKS SHOWING GUYZ HER "HOOKIE" IS GOOD WELL SHE IS JUST GONNA CAUSE TROUBLE IN THE END. THAT IS A GOOD RUMOR TO START.

Answer 7

She obviously was attention seeking. You need to tell her that that kind of behaviour is unacceptable and ask her why she did it. Make her understand that what she did is not a good way to get attention and you should try to spend some more time with her, perhaps. Take her out, spend time with her; that will make her feel loved and I think she will no longer have the craving for attention that she found an unhealthy outlet for in using her sexuality.

Answer 8

Whoa there. That's a major run on. Talk to her about her promiscuity, give her the s*x talk, if you haven't but don't be weird about it. Don't tell her that what she's doing is wrong, but tell her that she should tone it down since it's not well seen. I don't mean to worry you but a lot of the times, girls who are abused tend to be a lot more promiscuous, and be it the case or not, perhaps you should take her to a therapist. Plus, therapists are always good, and everyone should go to one! Hope i have been of help.

Answer 9

Okay, your daughter is very young for this behavior. This may be her way of reaching out for attention. BUtj for the safety of your daughter you need to monitor her internet activity and force her to wear underwear. You also need to inform her of the dangers that come from sexual activity. You need to take all of the short skirts and skimpy shirts out of your daughters closet. She maybe upset with you at first but she will get over it.

Answer 10

First of all, calm down. This is her life and she might have to learn things the hard way. Try sending her an email or write down some questions and give her them to answer like why do you do these things. Do not ask her face to face. She will just yell at you. If she does create more s*x appeal each day make sure you email her or write down if she is safe about "things" she does. You are her Mom try to protect her, but don't put her on a leash (makes things worse) because when she goes out into the real world, like college, she may go crazy (too much freedom at once) . Hope this helps!!!

Answer 11

take away all privileges, like phone, TV and going out with friends.  Watch what she wears to school and then talk to her to find out why she behaves like this.  Maybe stick her in counseling.  Good luck!

Answer 12

i would learn how to spell and go get a degree

no wonder your "daughters" up on poles she'll be doing that for the rest of her life probably.

didn't know maggie was a guys name

Answer 13

Sometimes kids to crazy things to get attention if they feel neglected or maybe they are getting negative feelings at home so she is frustrated and acting out. Try and talk to her and set up a meeting w/a counselour at school also.

Answer 14

why wouldnt she have worn underwear wtf is your daughter a prostitute at school or something, but just tell her next time you do that there going to be a consequence, or take away her skirts idk im not a mom thanks the lord

Answer 15

Wow... that's, well... that's a big one.  Assuming there is nothing wrong with your daughter's motor skills, putting on undies is possible, right?  I'd have to kill her... in my mind.  And when I was done giving my rage a place to have it's way safely... I'd have to ground her and take those skirts away for a while... not 4 ever or she'll get them from friends... trust me.

Now, the aweful part... she'll do whatever she wants at school. (If she's found mooning someone in the hall.... u have a problem.) You might need some alone time together, mom. Be sure you know which way this young lady's compass is headed in... it's your job.  And you will kick yourself later if she comes home eating for 2 someday.  

Good Luck.  

Remember, boys are on/off switches but girls are like instruments on an airplane... push the wrong one and everyone's gonna die...

Answer 16

Tell her to wear underwear, punish her, take away her short skirts. Any of those would work.

Answer 17

You should talk to her about this and punish/discipline her! She shouldn't be acting like this. She should respect her own body! :) Good luck and Take care.

- Phiii ツ

Answer 18

Explain to her that being a girl she should respect her body. Unwanted attention causes unwanted troubles. She may have a warped mentality as to it being 'cool' or 'hip' to have a hord of guys after her. It could be her friends who make her believe this is a cool thing to do. I'd suggest getting an older aunt, someone she is comfortable with, to sit her down together with you, and talk this as a serious father daughter talk. You'll need to put anger aside, and show her that this is not a matter of angering you, but it is about her lack of judgment on her actions, lack of respect for her private self. Tell her that if she wants to portray a 'loose easy girl' persona, boys will definately go after her! but for the wrong reasons. They're in it for a free meal, they'll not treat you as a lady, but as a cheap girl with no morals. Good men will shun her. Ask her Is this wat she wants? She should attend sunday church to confess and repent, if you're christian. Try to put this aside, and get the teachers to monitor her ways in school.(without letting her know this). Also, dont let her get away scott free-she'll need to learn that bad attitudes warrant consequences. Ground her.

Answer 19

How about you be a MOTHER?

Stop letting your daughter dress like that!

Wow.  How could you, as a mother, let your daughter dress like that?

SHES IN MIDDLE SCHOOL!!!!

What are you thinking?

Answer 20

AS FOR THE PEOPLE ABOVE THIS PERSON ISN'T SAYING w***e ... WORE LIKE TODAY I WORE BLUE JEANS AND A GRAY TANK.

I'd beat the c**p outta her she'd have so many bruises she'd need to cover up. Blame yourself, children who are properly disciplined know better than to do c**p like this.

Answer 21

well ..i think having a dad  named "maggie" is a little odd. I dont believe that this is a real question at all, and if it were, it would be your own fault for raising her that way.

Answer 22

be a mother and punish her, take away some things that she likes, if she doesnt learn that she isnt supposed to dress like that shes going to end up dressing like that for the rest of her life and imagine the types of bad things that can happen to her, like perverted olf men looking at her or something, talk about scary

Answer 23

Not to sure about this question but, I went through a similar situation where my daughter wore short skirts and no underware at 11 yrs old. I didnt fight with her over her choice but discussed compromises, just taking short skirts away etc will just make them do it behind your back, I stopped her wearing very short skirts so she waited till she was out and rolled the waist band to make a longer skirt into a short one which was shorter than the short ones I had removed. My daughter hasnt worn underware under jeans,leggins, shorts or long skirts[ min knee length] since she was 10, the exception being to school on pe days or when she had to because bum problems.

However she sometimes came home without any underware saying she had had to take it of as it was wet/dirty etc and it would turn up in her PE bag.

When she was 12 she was allowed to wear short skirts at home without underware and to go out with them on if she wears underware. I know from the creases in her waistband that she rolls it over when she is out to make her skirt shorter so much so that on the couple of occasions I saw her in town and the park the bottom of her bum cheeks were showing along with thankfully her underware. When I talked to her about it she actually said she had wanted to take her underware off and I have since learned that when she was at the fair ground she wore her skirt this short without underware.I asked her why she dont like wearing underware and she says she just doesnt like the underware she has and dont feel comfey wearing it. She has always liked shiny or wet look things and has a pvc skirt and shorts and she said she would wear some underware like this and keep it on. After much comsideration  I let her go on the internet to find some she would wear and she ordered  thongs and tight bikini style panties in latex and plastic.

At least now when she is out wearing skirts she is covered up.

Answer 24

Is this Kevin Federline?

Answer 25

i would take away all of her clothes, any extremely short skirts would be cut up and put in the trash, i would also find out who she's hanging out with and if you have to set her clothe out for her panties included then do it until she gets that you are the parent and you are in control.

sherissa

Answer 26

tell her that she shouldn't aspire to be a stripper

or you won't ever give her any money (even for college)

and ground her and tell her that if she ever wants to wear a skirt again it has to be past her knees!

and that she can't date until she's 18

Answer 27

nice man name

lmfaoo jk jk

anywho youh should tell her to wear a underwear!!!

&& then smack her, && tell her never to do it againor youh can be the nice parent && just take something away, it wont work just smack her, thats what my parents do -_-

but youh should let her wear short skirt

she is after all a teenager

but tell her to wear a underwear!!!

Answer 28

well i dont no much about this i am 13 to and im a boy but i would have to say you need to talk to her and see what she has been doing to git like that because that is not very good

Answer 29

You need to ask why she felt the need to behave in like this. Address that, if she needs more attention at home or whatever give it to her. Whatever her reason you need to tell her that its unacceptable and find a way to punish her behavior. Also, monitor what she wears everyday.

Answer 30

the question is what should someone do to you for allowing her out of the house like that.  Explore at length her clothing choices, and exert control.

Answer 31

Um-m. Nice fantasy. Why don't you just visit the naughty sites and leave YA alone. You're her Dad and your name is Maggie?