My daughter has an extremely overweight best friend, she is 10 and weighs a little over 150 lbs. When she visits us she won't eat because we refuse to cook her nothing but chicken nuggets and french fries with ranch dressing, this is all she eats at home, her mother makes her a special meal aside from the regular meal or she won't eat. We offered to let her have one meal of chicken nuggets and fries when she is here every third time as a compromise.
Her mother has tried bringing bags of chicken nuggets and french fries to our home for her when she is here, but we declined. We also do not have a car, preferring to walk and or take the bus where we need to go. When she is with us she constantly complains that it is too hard for her and has told my daughter she will not come over anymore because of it. We even bought her a bike to have here so they can go riding around the neighborhood together.
My daughter is now ticked at us, I told her too bad, that we are not going to compromise our health so we can continue to allow her to kill herself. Am I wrong, should we let our kids eat unhealthy when she is here simply to keep things smooth with my daughter. I say no, but some family members think we are being unreasonable.
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