I have an eating disorder (EDNOS) and Body dismorphia. Also depression. Yes, I see a therapist and yes im on meds but ive hit a very low point this week.
If any of you have similar issues, then you know it's all about control and your life revolves around this obsession.
I can't leave the house and face the public if I have just binged or if I have gained weight or even if ive just at a normal meal. I have to feel empty..my stomach has to be flat. I feel fat instantly and feel bloated when i eat food. I feel guilty and disgusted in myself.. Ill either vomit or use laxatives and fast.
My bf and i see each other once a week. And i told him i couldnt see him because i cant leave the house. I binged more than usual this week so I am too insecure to even leave the house. I dont want him seeing me. I thought he understood but when i brought up going to university with my friend, he became paranoid and said you cancel plans with me but you're still going to uni.I explained to him i meant that i would go to uni after i see him. He still doesnt get it.
Im fasting now to make up for the binges. As long as i stick to it, ill be okay to leave the house and i already said i wanted to see him saturday before going to uni. He just doesnt get it.
I feel like a failure as a gf because im so messed up and i cant leave the house to see him. I feel like a burden. I feel like a freak.
Any advice?
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