My eldest brother just started his silent torture punishment?How to make things up with him.?

Question

Okay here how it goes.I have made a very stupid mistake that cost him $820.Someone came over to claim the money and made him more angry to me.I didn't tell him earlier and might end up all my underage siblings in foster care made him d**n angry.He put his effort for not having us ended in foster care.

Just to point out that my eldest bro(Mike) is a legal guardian to me and all 3 other brothers.Dad passed away and mum just out of picture.

So now, he's not talking to me.The last time he talk to me was when he shoved me to the wall and punched my face few times for this case.Not just that,I have to work to pay back his $820.He made our housekeeper stop coming over and get me done all the job.That's fine.But he sent all his message by a written note on a paper.That really break my tears.

I am so sad that he's not talking to me.I will be happy if he keeps beating me as long as he speaks to me.

How can I make up things with him and let him speak with me again.I'm just jealous when he speaks and laughs with all other brothers.

Answer 1

I understand you made a mistake but just give him a bit of time, maybe write a heartfelt letter and leave it for him to read. He will come around, people make all kinds of mistakes, ask for his forgiveness and tell him how regretful you are.

I do not agree with him hitting you, no one should ever have to go through that no matter what the situation is. Wishing you all the best.  

Answer 2

apologize and sit down and tell him how you feel and if ur old enough apply for a job to pay him back hope this helps :)

Answer 3

If this is a serious question, all you can do is be humble and just do whatever he tells you to do and more. Apologize once sincerely and he should get over it soon if not in a while. Let him forgive you, don't beg like a parasite on a dog.

Answer 4

He should not have hit you. I don't really know what you can do, just try your hardest to pay back the money and hopefully it'll work out. He's probably just really upset at the moment, it should pass.