My ex's new girlfriend is always butting in, what to do?

Question

My ex and I have been apart for 7 years now and he married after we split. His marriage didn't last long and now he has a new girlfriend again. ( long winded I Know SORRY ) but this new girlfriend now wont's to take over and he wont do any thing to stop it. All the normal arrangements we had in place for the 2 children we have, she has now changed. What should I do ? I have tried to talk to her about it but she got really shirty and now she wont talk to me at all.

Answer 1

It's not her you need to speak with, it's him. He's the one allowing some woman to come into the picture and interrupt the children's schedule. She can get as 'shirty' as she wants but they aren't her child. It's really none of her business! I wouldn't speak to her. I would insist on him being the one communicating. Some women think they can meet a child today and rule them as if they have given birth. That's wrong and typically makes things tough for the children.

Answer 2

Since she isnt his wife be sure he isnt having this person around your children, if he cant see to it the courts can.

Answer 3

why dont you talk with your ex instead of his girlfriend?

Answer 4

I wouldn't want to talk to her at all, tell your ex, you want to go by your order from the court, not by what his gf wants to do.