My ex asked where ive been,why?

Question

well we have not talked in a few days because we only talk about the kids.and so since that's all we talk about.and there has been nothing going on,we have not talked.so she sent me an e-mail asking if I'm still alive she has not heard from me in a few days.on top of me looking at my e-mail today i see she has a domain key thing on it.i think that means that she will know wether or not ive read her mail right.if so why.and what are her intentions of even wanting to talk and doing the domain key thing?

Answer 1

Sounds like she is having regrets. Either that or she is just noisy.

Answer 2

Sounds like she wants the best of both worlds to me. There's no way really to know what&why she wants to know unless you just ask. She's your ex what's the worst that could happen?You'll Never know the answer unless you ask.

Answer 3

What does it matter?  If your relationship is over, then it is over.  If you continue to associate with her other than about the welfare of the children then it could be control or regret.  On whose part though?

If it is over then you need to set limits and get on with your life.Continuing to associate with your ex could prolong what you need to do, which is get on with your lives.

Be care-full...This could be a control issue.

Answer 4

well remember the saying.. you never stop loving someone either you never did or you always will.  i think she still loves you. and the domain key thing is prolly cuz she wants to know if you're trying to avoid her, if you still love her talk to her if you dont then idk. But do whatever could benefit your kids..

Answer 5

You don't really say what happened to your relationship their fore it makes it hard to answer. Who did what to who? If she left you for someone than she may  be having regrets. If you cheated on her then she probably never stopped loving you but just could not live with the thought of you being with someone else. She may have been just having a moment when she was really missing and wondering about  you, but this moment does not last long. If you love her take the bait and contact her if not let it be. There is no good answer to this really a lot of pain that has been caused by a failed relationship.  

Answer 6

I don't know, some people like to keep tabs on the people in their lives.

I wouldn't worry about whether or not you check e-mails or not, check them when you want. If she asks where you are for the sake of being nosey you also don't have to answer that. If it's something about the kids then fine, but I don't see where your personal life is an issue now.