My ex-best friend is also married to my cousin and this is causing problems...?

Question

sorry for asking in this section but i'm not getting much help in the family section....

Long story short..........I had a best friend who is also married to my cousin. We kinda dont like each other anymore....I say its both our faults and want to move on. I dont think she can do the same. this makes family get togethers uncomfortable. i just want us to be polite to each other at family functions and outside of that we never have to speak.

The last time we were at a baby shower she wouldnt let her daughter play with my 2 daughters. she actually came over and picked up her kid and took her away from mine.

also, my sister planned a big 30th bday party at my house for my brother-in-law and when she mentioned it too my ex-best friend she replied "um, no, i'm not going to her house"

how can i make family get togethers less uncomfortable?

Answer 1

Sounds like your ex bf is a little immature and Im sorry honey but there is not a whole lot you can do about it. You can kill her with kindness as much as it hurts. Unfortunatly you cant make her grow up.

Answer 2

You can't do much about this situation...

Continue being nice and try telling her that all

you want is peace. If this doesn't work. Try to give her

some space. Hopefully she'll get over it.