My ex boyfriend from 2 years ago came to see me?

Question

He came last week to my work and had a coffee with me, told me he works around the corner from me now and left me his number. He knows I'm engaged and just bought a house with my fiance. Unsure of why he would visit because we ended our relationship on bad terms but we were together for a long time and had good times together. Could he be curious or lonely? He isn't in a relationship that I could tell and he just turned 30 this year. Should I call him and ask why or just forget it?

Answer 1

call him

Answer 2

He hopes to have an affair with you. He doesn't care about the fiance. I would seriously not call him.

Answer 3

Why give him the time of day?  Put his number in the bin, you have moved  on to better things... havent you?

Answer 4

if you want to ruin what you have do call him hes going to start some c**p and then you will again be alone i would just ignore him hes not in your present and youa re stupid to talk to him if you love the other guy and are to be married.

Answer 5

2 yrs ago he was your ex. Drop n forget it, it was already 2 yrs ago

Answer 6

He is probably lonely, and you shouldn't ask why he came, just in case he just wanted to catch up, although it doesn't sound like those were his intentions. Call him and be friends with him if you like, but don't ask him why he came in the first place.  

Answer 7

Lets put your fiance in your shoes. Would you like him meeting up with his ex for some coffee, who he had a great relationship with ( and probably good s*x ) and have her leave your fiance her number, behind your back? I really highly doubt that. So just let it be, let it go. It ended for a reason and now u are engaged to another man, who is suppose too be "the one" so walk away while u can. If u cant walk away,then u should think twice before you walk down the aisle. I am not judging you at all. I have been in similar situations where " the past " comes back and I get blinded of old feelings. Be strong girlie :)

Answer 8

Wait on him too call on you and keep him at a distance, It does'nt sound healthy for your current relationship.

Answer 9

Forget it.  You should not cheat.  It actually depends who broke up with who. If he broke up with you, then you should never fall for him again.  He broke up with you because there was something wrong, with you or something else, but if it was because of you, then if he didn't like you once, then you guys would have problems when you're married.