My ex boyfriend is now again contacting me,what should i do?

Question

me and my ex broke up 3 months ago,reason for our breakup was his ex girlfriend.after that i got engeged.i dont like my fiance so much and i still love my ec alot and want him back..and now he is contacting me again by text or emails..he said that he loved me but i told him we are just friends..i know he still loves me but he is not expressing his feelings and behaving like a friend...i know he is having contacts with many girls as well but i still love him...we are working at same place and i want him completely back..how can i make him to express his love for me..?please help me...should i make him jealous with other guys...?

Answer 1

GET OVER HIM! HE'S YOUR EX!! GET A NEW BOYFIREND!!.

Answer 2

it depends on how you and your ex boyfriend ended your relationship, if it was on bad terms then my opinion is forget about it really is just a booty call. or on the other hand if it was on good terms dont throw yourself in his arms just yet, wait to see if you can actually trust him and if you believe you can then break the news to your poor fiancee..no pressure!!

Answer 3

you may be making him jealous because of ur fiance...is ur ex for real cause if he is ...he is making ur life a little complicated because if u rele trully like him n he likes u ...u have to decide if u rele want to get married to this other guy if u r still in love with ur ex...

sorry if this doesnt really help

Answer 4

Sweetheart, it sounds like you need a reality check...if you do not completely love the man you are with now and want to spend the rest of you life with him, DO NOT MARRY HIM and end your relationship now. First, it is not fair to him. He deserves to be with someone who really loves him, and so do you. It sounds like you are afraid to be alone. Your ex is not going to commit to you. If he went back to his ex before and he is getting with a lot of other girls, he is a PLAYER. He may want to be with you now, but it is not because he cares about you, he cares about himself, and you deserve better. I know it is painful, but it would really be best for you to stay away from him! Your heart will heal! PLEASE don't start playing games trying to make him jealous...don't you want a real, lasting relationship? What happens if you get pregnant by one of them? What will happen to your child? Will you be left to raise a child on our own? You deserve to be happy with someone that you love completely and who loves you completely, and neither of these men sound like the answer. Be strong. Be confident. You don't need a man to make you happy. You have to be sure of yourself before you can be sure of someone else. If you are patient, the right man will come along who will treat you right and love you like you deserve....hang in there, stand up for yourself, and do what's right!  

Answer 5

Well.

He's an ex for a reason. Think about what that reason is and ask yourself is it worth it.

Answer 6

trust me he does not love. Can you say Booty Call?

Answer 7

"i dont like my fiance so much"

lol

Answer 8

poor darling!