My ex friend would tell me that I am using him for money?

Question

When it was me taking him to Cubs games, and then he would tell me that the man should pay to do things, eat out.. whatever... then he said to me we should save money... and then when I offered to pay for dinner he said, "Why, do you feel guilty"? What kind of game is this?

Answer 1

I understand why he is an "ex" friend; he obviously has a lot of issues, none of which have anything to do with you. The guy is a big loser.

Answer 2

They probably don't ahve enough for 'the world' but don't want to make you pay for things. Maybe it is just a thing that they feel abd that they can't, but wish that they could.

Answer 3

he feels guilty and confused. Just do what you feel is right, and you have been doing.

Its a stupid game

Just spilt paying for things or take turns.