My ex-friends sent around baby shower invitations to my family and people I work with!?

Question

My old friends sent around fake baby shower invites to almost everyone I work with and a bunch of my family members.

They are old friends because they bullied me so bad I had to leave public high school and get a GED. This was in April. The school did everything they could and talking to their parents didn't work. They thought it was no big deal.

I went to work earlier today to grab something to eat and someone asked me where I was registered at. I asked what they were talking about and they told me about the invite and then showed it to me.

They said that I was five months pregnant with a son that I will be naming Brody and the party would be at my house.

What do I do?

Answer 1

Contact the police and press charges for harrassment.

To try to "save face" contact as many friends, family and co workers as you can and let them know that its been brought to your attention that someone has sent out fake baby shower invitations to all of your aquiantances.  Tell them to please disregard the invitations and that you are handling the matter.  Apologize for any inconvinience.

Answer 2

bullying sucks but you have to get stronger about it.  if someone mentions it to you, instead of getting nervous and upset and crying and or even running away, look them dead in the eye  and say, "sorry, it was dumb prank, i have no idea why these losers would waste their money on such a thing" and mean it.  girls can be the worst bullies ever, but the key to fighting bullies is to hold yourself above them and really mean it.  jerks like this don't have the right to make you cry or stress, offer emotion only to people who really deserve it, you know?

Answer 3

Give me their numbers so I can give them a piece of my mind.

Answer 4

is this a joke?

Answer 5

I would post a notice at work explaining the situation and I would tell everyone that received an invite what's going on.  I would also try to see if you can get them for harassment.  Good luck and I'm so sorry you are experiencing bullying.

Answer 6

I think you really need to call up that annoying ex-friend of yours. Tell her that this is rude and very disrespectful, and tell everyone who was sent an invitation that this is fake. SO MEAN!!!! I would slap her.....but that's mean too.

OH, AND SEND AROUND INVITATIONS BECAUSE HER BF IS GETTING CIRCUMCISED.....but that's mean too...nvm

Answer 7

theres a few things you should do.  first post a notice at work stating the truth, second get a temporary restraining order  (TRO) and charge them with harassment and slander.

Answer 8

The law is starting to crack down on bullying. You can talk to the cops about filing a harassment suit. You could also file against them for defamation...either of these should be a wakeup call. Send around a notice stating that the information was false, but invite everyone over for a brunch or something anyway. You should probably talk to your boss as well and see if he/she could send out a memo to dispell the rumor and save you the embarassment.

Answer 9

try and charge them with harrassment? my brother commit sicide because of bullying, it is a serious thing. this sounds like something someone would do if they were in middle school.  and tell everyone that there is no baby