My ex gf has a new bf already?

Question

We broke up last week after 8 months and then i had been doing fine but she had been texting and calling saying she wasn't. Then last night i went tosoccer practice and all the guys that go to her school are telling me about how she was with this guy and was making out with him in the halls and at mc donalds. Now i crushed and idk what to do. I have really bad depresion and i had just learned how to control it but now everything is crashing down on me.

Answer 1

Just gotta keep moving on dude. Happened to me too recently. Got to live life day by day and enjoy everything you have. Tomorrow is a privilege it's not promised. Keep that in mind. If it gets too bad I have an AIM screen name, alex03932 if you think you can't handle it anymore. Take care dude. "Hold your head up high, because tomorrow you may die." (A quote from a Rancid song)

Answer 2

she been playing a game with you. she didn't care from the beginning if she moved on that fast or she was talking to the guy before y'all broke up but you didn't know. get over her asap it's obvious that she's not thinking about you

Answer 3

she Is probably not over you she really likes /lloves you and wants you back which is why she does that so just talk to her and let her know it bothers you  

Answer 4

:-) girls are girls...they were the same, are the same and will remain the same!  

Answer 5

that sounds very sad how could she do that shes stupid

Answer 6

She has moved on and probably was on her way out the door way before last week.  Don't beat yourself up, your head will soon get turned around.  Pay no attention what she is or is not doing.  It has nothing to do with you.  Just count yourself blessed you didn't waste anymore time with her.  Do you really think this new fling is going to last?  I don't.  

Answer 7

its prob a rebound guy.

Answer 8

Well done for taking steps to control your depression. You need some support at this time, it's an awful situation to be in. Your gf hasn't been nice and you are bound to feel bad. Speak to your counsellor, talk things through with friends or your mum/sister whoever you can talk to. She may have been using the guy to make herself feel better, maybe you should talk to her and find out what is going on, it's always better than hearing things secondhand.  

Answer 9

Get over it, that's the game kid. Lose one get another, you just need to play along.

Answer 10

I think this 'depression' is part of life. Afterall, she has been the one that you loved once before, and it is quite impossible to forget about her totally. I am sure that there is still some feelings for her, or you will still think about her at times.

Time is a very good friend to forget about a relationship. Nourish your time with your hobbies, and live each day positively and happily. Who knows, you will meet your dream girl soon.