My ex has another girl..?

Question

he got me preg. after two years of being with him, and now he has another girlfriend. hes been with her since he found out, so like three months? hes out with her right now, im more upset than ever. i hate this.

Answer 1

Now that you have a child you do have to grow up. You don't need to be concerned about the other girl. You need to take him to court and get support for the child. That child is entitled to it. Now it's time to focus on what is best for you and your child not you and him.

Answer 2

Sucks for you but you gotta think about your baby. Your child will need his/her father in  their life along with child support. Even if it hurts you like h**l when he comes around. You gotta put on a happy face and allow your child to love both of you. Its best for your child. It sucks when your baby has to be around another woman, but just remember you will eventually be with another man too and you will have to get over it for the baby's sake. As long as he is not abusive or neglectful the baby will be fine, and will know YOU are mom, not the other girl.. and the baby will love YOU.

Answer 3

Get a dna test and milk his @ss in child support... Then burn his house down.

Answer 4

If it is his child, he can take the baby around whomever he wants to.  Think if you end up ever getting a new boyfriend, the child will be around him, so there isn't much difference.  He'll have to pay support, but they won't make him visit his child alone.

Answer 5

that might be a reality you'll just have to deal with.. if he's the father he has every right to bring the baby around his new girl, just like you have every right to bring it around the way-better-than-that-dirt-bag real man that you'll eventually replace that boy with :)

it sucks, but the only thing you can do is stay positive and move on.. you and your baby to be deserve better :)

Answer 6

Figure it's good riddance ; and let him be her problem . You have your whole life ahead of you - not to mention the glorious raising of your child ..so whatever you do - do not give another human being the power to rob you of happiness . Life goes on . There's more than one bad apple out there . From now on avoid bad apples . Once you resolve not to hold in the pain from this relationship , you will be able to accept life and happiness will soon follow . Good luck .