My ex-husband had s*x with my sister in law, while I was married to him.

Question

we were married for 10 yrs, and I Had a GUT feeling that it happened in my first 2 yrs married to him, I confronted both of them and asked. they both denied it. so 8 yrs later we finally ended up divorced from each other. Now my ex wants to try to reconnect with me. But I found out that He and my sister in law in FACT did have s*x all those yrs ago. My sister in law is still with my brother. I came to a conclusion that I will not tell my brother, cause I don't want any "in Family Fighting" I forgave my sister in law. but I don't know what to do with my EX? do I reconnect with him, or am I wasting my time? (I do still have feelings for my ex) but not like when we were first married. soooo I'm throwing out to all of you- to see what you think of this nasty situation.

Answer 1

If you think you can trust him give it a go. people make mistakes. I realize this should not be one of them but I hate to think you might throw away happiness over one mistake

Answer 2

I would not have anything to do with this guy. Move on. Be happy... with someone else.  

Answer 3

Don't reconnect with him!  Any man that can lie to you for that long cannot be trusted.

Answer 4

the temptation is to grate. he will see her at every family function and your brother will more-then-likely come over to your house with her. if that is not uncomfortable i do not know what is. say no and go your own ways.