My ex-husband is triing to get me back, what do i do?

Question

my ex-husband cheated on me and then left me over a year ago. now all of a sudden since my dad died, in april, he has been triing to convince me to get back together. he swears he is a changed man, and that he will treat me the way i deserve. i have to hear it every time i go drop off our kids, and every time i tell him no we dont hear from him for at least a month, even though he is supposed to see our kids every week. he has been in and out of jail since we split, and says it is because he needs me to keep him out of trouble. he knows i still care what happens to him, and that i wonder what could have happened between us if he had agreed to work things out instead of leaving. I no longer love him and i cant get over the problems in our past to work things out. i have told him that over and over, but he just wont drop it. how can i put an end to his advances once and for all?

Answer 1

Plead insanity and file letters of incorporation.

Answer 2

just ignore his advances,he left u, he made a choice, he chose the other woman over u. could it be that maybe u inherited some money?

Answer 3

If he has been in and out of jail and says it is because he needs you to keep him out of trouble.. that is pure bull and you know it.. think.. he is taking advantage of the fact you are weak now from grieving.. don't buy into that c**p for a second.. He needs to take responsibility for his actions no matter weather you are togeather or not.

It is very twisted logic to think you can help someone stay out of trouble.. that is a personal choice.. he is trying to use a sad situation to manipulate you... Run away as fast as you can, get a restraining order if you have too and use it...he is hoping you are weak and hurt enough to buy his bull... so sorry for all you are going through.

Answer 4

Let him know that if he pursues asking you that you'll have to file a harassment charge.

Answer 5

Just remember why you left him and be strong. Pray for the perfect outcome (which will hopefulland not fixate on you) Good luck. Keep healthy boundaries

y mean he will meet someone  

Answer 6

Just ignore it.  Dont let him see that it effects you at all.  He wet his bed, now he has to lie in it.  Too little too late, and all that junk.

Answer 7

either get married or get a large boyfriend or take out a restraining order upon him that says he is not allowed any contact with you and someone has to be present when he comes to take the kids on his time to have them  

Answer 8

You could let him see you with other men

I have friday night open, and you?