My ex is Recurring in my dreams.?

Question

I have dreams that include him at least 2-3 times a week.

We broke up about a year ago. But, we've been good friends since.

In one dream I had, I dreamt (sp?) that he kissed me. The kiss felt so realistic. After the kiss, he ran off into a forest. I went to go look for him and once I found him, he said he hated me and never wanted to see my face again. I remember feeling extremly angry and crushed.

In another dream I had, it took place at school. In this dream, I had a HUGE crush on him, but never had the confidence to tell him. In the middle of the day, I decided to ditch school, just get away from everyone. When I returned to school, I saw him in another girl's arms. I was shocked and dissapointed in myself because I didn't have the courage to tell him I liked him.

Whats the meaning behind all these dreams?!?

Answer 1

To dream about your ex-boyfriend or that you and your ex got back together again, suggests that something or someone in your current life that is bringing out similar feelings you felt during the relationship with your ex. The dream may be a way of alerting you to the same or similar behavior in a current relationship. What you learn from that previous relationship may need to be applied to the present one so that you do no repeat the same mistake. Alternatively, past lovers often highlight the positive experiences you had with that person.It could also signify aspects of yourself that you have x'd out or neglected. To see an old ex-boyfriend in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.

Hope that helped