My ex is a bigest fraud i have ever met and i am the bigest idiot to love her

Question

My ex partner (de-facto) left me last month and she tbig estr children's with her

As a peace of furniture she owns (interstate) since that day she is living with police officer and she has interim violence order on me, she has applied to federal mag court for final order with the request that children should live with her

I come a cross of her folder with shocking evidence; my dilemma is what should I do about it. Living as couple since 1994 only problem whee had was alcohol abuse and some substances abuse (drinking antidepressants)

She is in denial of having any problem drinking (except to me) and when she visits psychiatrist she tells him stories how I am terrorising her for last 15 years so she can get more antidepressants, now my problems is that I fond documents that she is claiming single mother pension since feb 2001 till jan 2004 when she left me with one child from jan 2004 till sept 2005 she sold her property overseas and managed to hide lump sum money from welfare department sep 2005 she informed me that she is pregnant and the child is mine whee made a decision to move back together oct 2005

Till November 2006 with another child she is still claiming single mother pension I had no access to her bank no did ever open any of her mail I was kept in dark until this day, she has used welfare and me to gain financial for her alcoholism and who knows what else, having custody court in place I am scared that reporting may damage my case reason her friends are threatening that they will say that I knew all the way about it what should I do wait or doit know please any help appreciated

Answer 1

dont let them scare u. its a control issue. they know that she is in trouble for what she did and they are pulling out all the strings to get u to do as they say. in the long run the kids are what matters. good luck and b prepared for a battle!

Answer 2

Don't let them scare you into withholding evidence. I would bring the evidence on what she has done in and make her pay for the crimes she has committed and get custody of those children.

And I would do it right away.. actually just go do it now if they are open and stop wasting time by asking about if you should do it or not.